The third article: Dare to iterate yourself
Have the courage to be hated
Now everyone talks about a concept called "small steps, fast iteration, fast iteration". This concept is very recognized and is also an active practitioner.
, but gradually I discovered a problem. The reason why many people cannot do it is not that they do not recognize this concept, nor that they lack resources and methods, but that they lack courage.
is like a good prescription for curing diseases. Without the "medicine introduction", no matter how good or wonderful it is, it cannot be effective.
For example, many friends are mostly dissatisfied with the status quo, but whenever I point out a direction, the other party will give a reason for that cannot be done like that, just like building a high wall, surrounding yourself tightly.
People like this cry and escape every day, but the sunshine outside is dazzling and they are unwilling to endure it. Even if you tell him to bear it, he can't take this step.
Later I realized that what everyone lacks is not the direction of hard work or the belief of persistence, but the courage to take the first step.
Although my friend has always looked harmless since he was a child, his inner unwillingness and impulse are always surging. My friend’s work experience is divided into three stages. First, he is admitted to the system and becomes a civil servant. The second stage is to work in Beijing and start a business in Beijing and the third stage is to start a business. #
"Where does this wave come from?" comes from and constantly questioning yourself. The final answer is that is mostly due to the fear of being disappointed by him.
Attribution After that, I thought that after going to Beijing, it would be not good to let everyone down. It would be better if I was not disappointed, but it didn’t have much impact on myself, so I just stood up and went through the resignation procedures, and embarked on the road to Beijing without hesitation.
After several years, I later read the "Courage of Being ***" written by Japanese writer Kishi **ro, and I saw this sentence in it: The so-called freedom is to have the courage to be hated.
When I saw this sentence, I was greatly shocked and remembered the choices I made back then, which to some extent secretly fit this concept.
Not only that, this sentence also made me realize that "worry about being hated" is a very powerful force, and sometimes can firmly tie a person to the spot like a chain. I believe many people have a deep understanding of .
Then how can you overcome this fear of being "hateful"? I think is easy to solve. #Telebrity Creation Challenge#
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