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It is true that only when you learn it, you will regret it.
People with poor life and fortune are not without opportunities or lack of food and clothing, but because the opportunity comes, but cannot seize it. They can only stomp their feet and complain a few times in the face of opportunities.
We always say that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. But, what should we prepare? Reading is the best preparation, just like a master key, you can open any door.
If you live a difficult life now and your destiny is not good, it means that you have not read enough books, or the depth of your reading is not enough.
Li Mi , one of the heroes of the Sui and Tang Dynasties, was a guard by Emperor Yang of Sui and when he was young.
One day, Emperor Yang of Sui said to the minister: "That guard, always look around, drive him out."
The minister couldn't bear to drive Li Mi away directly, and said tactfully: "You are talented and your ambition should not be with the guard. You should study more in the future and don't spend your energy on small matters."
After Li Mi returned to his hometown, he studied hard. When you go out, hang the book on the horns and read it while you go. In front of his children, Yang Su liked him : "I see Li Mi's understanding of the truth, you can't wait."
There are many ways to change your destiny in the world, but it must be related to reading. Therefore, when a person's life is hard and his blessings are poor, he should study hard. Otherwise, the days ahead will be even more difficult.
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Reading is a process of accepting "teacher criticism" and makes people rise up in setbacks.
Lu Xun wrote this scene in " From Baicaoyuan to Sanwei Bookstore ": The children are very naughty and often run to the small courtyard behind Sanwei Bookstore to look for flowers, Ant , etc.
Mr. yelled in the study room, "Where have people gone?"
The children returned to the bookstore one after another. The gentleman took out the ruler, pretended, and said loudly, "Read."
So, the children learned their lesson and read aloud with their throats.
A ruler is still fresh in Lu Xun's memory. I also felt the power of encouragement and the gentleman's good intentions.
Teacher is a hard-working gardener who finds ways to impart wisdom to us. When we are not working hard enough, the teacher will get angry and criticize severely.
It is said that good medicine is good for diseases, and honest words are good for actions.
If you want to read, you must accept criticism. If there is no teacher criticizing you, then when you see the inspirational stories in the book, you will feel hot on your face - you feel ashamed of yourself. Compare with big names and you will find the gap.
After repeated criticism, you will be able to withstand pressure. You are no longer a seedling in the greenhouse or an ordinary person who complains about the world.
This is fate - the more you setbacks, the more courage you become. Only those who have experienced the storm can truly embrace the rainbow.
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Reading is a process of changing the understanding of society and making people humble and wise.
One thing, in the eyes of a hundred people, has a hundred insights, and no one can convince anyone. If you are the person involved, who should you listen to? This is a very difficult thing.
If you have enough wisdom, you can come up with your own opinions and find what you want from other people’s suggestions.
Reading can help you understand society and find many causal relationships. This will improve your judgment and effectively grasp everything in the future.
There is a saying that goes: "You will never make money beyond cognition."
People with poor life and poor fortune are mostly because of too little money, displaced, and their families are not decent. If you have money, you can change everything. But money is not groundless, but is exchanged for wisdom.
People who can make more money are generally people with higher positions. The labor intensity is smaller, but in society, people at the bottom have to accept the situation.
Mencius said: "Those who work hard to control others, and those who work hard to control others."
Divide labor into levels, and you will understand that relying on wisdom to work will be easier to change your destiny.
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Reading is a process of walking with your head down, making people calm and far-reaching.
We often use words like "study hard" to describe those who like to read, that is, lowering their heads is a symbol of wisdom.
There is a story in "The Four Lessons of Lessons of Levant": There is a Shandong native named Zhao Yufeng who passed the imperial examination when he was young, but he lived a bad life and did not have good results in the exam.
He took the article and went to visit Teacher Qian Mingwu. Qian Mingwu did not like him, but laid out all the articles.
Afterwards, he quickly changed his method of writing articles, took the exam and passed the exam.
There are always some people who think they are wise after reading a few books. They don’t know that a true wise man is a person who will study for the rest of his life.
has two common sayings: "The strong one has the strong one; the strong one is hard to defeat the local snake."
Only by lowering one's head can you calm down and write a good article; only by lowering one's head can you not easily trip over the stones under your feet.
People have bad luck and are always filled with resentment and anger. That is a manifestation of frivolity and are easily crushed by strong people.
When the rice is ripe, you will bend over, and when people become smart, you will bow your head.
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Reading is the process of making friends and let people get help from noble people.
"Li Mi" mentioned at the beginning of the article. After getting Yang Su's thumbs up, Yang Su's son Yang Xuangan personally visited Li Mi, and the two became good friends. When they raised an army to overthrow the Sui Dynasty , they were generals and ministers again.
We often lament that there is no true friend on the road of life; the friends we meet are friends of wine and meat and friends of interests.
If you read a few more books, you will meet people who love reading and will also be friends with big names in the book. Once your knowledge is appreciated, you will get more help.
Discussing friends is not a force, but a flower that attracts bees and butterflies.
If you are useful, there will naturally be someone coming to you to cooperate with. Just like Zhuge Liang , hiding in the mountains, some big shots come to you.
Your wisdom is what others need; your ability is the method and opportunity to achieve yourself. With all the benefits added together, you will naturally change your destiny.
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Poem says: "Everything is inferior, only reading is high."
The reason why a person can change his destiny is not because he fell in love with him at the "storm" or because he has lost his luck, but because he has firmly grasped his destiny, a thousand-mile horse and a man.
From now on, don’t complain about your destiny anymore. You must reflect on yourself and find the outlet for your destiny.
If birds want to fly high, they must first flap their wings; if people want to travel far, they must first accumulate strength.
Don’t be discouraged, there will always be a book that will change you.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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