I thought that at the age of 30, I should always be a powerful person. I will no longer be unable to sleep for a few days, I will not suffer all day long, and I will not retreat in a mess. But I was once a fearless person forever left me at the precious 18 years old. I used to th

I thought that at the age of 30, I should always be the powerful and no longer sleep for a few days, no longer suffer from the broken silver, nor will I retreat in a mess, but I was once a fearless person forever left me at the precious 18 years old.

used to think that making money was not important, but now we know that both the stars and the sea require tickets, and the travel fees in poetry and the distance are also very expensive; Folk is very cheap; but the wine in the tavern is not cheap, and if we don’t work hard, we can’t even afford to support our feelings. At this age, there is no time to be confused, nor capital to be pretentious...

I remembered the years when I graduated from college, and I was only 22.3 years old. It seems that Apple 4 just came out, she was in a straight suit, held an Apple phone in her hand, and had Huazi in her pocket (I just graduated and interned in a Fortune 500 company, and often posted on WeChat Moments), others... I thought you were doing well outside, but in fact, you could only swallow your stomach if you lost your teeth. Only you know all the pain. My hometown is the gentleness in your heart, and you always think of it like that warm sun.

At that time, it was hard to say how many times I could go home a year. It was not that I didn’t think about it, but because I had difficulties. I remember that I had just graduated from college and worked for more than a year and had never been home once. I could only say that I was too busy and didn’t dare to say that I had no money. I really had no money. I sang in the song and had no money. I went home for the New Year, but I really had no money, but I was embarrassed to go back, especially those moonlights who have been working hard for several years and decades, who are still empty in their pockets. Because you came out and lived in your hometown, you can endure the homesickness and loneliness in a foreign land, but you can’t stand the struggle for so long, and you still can’t give hundreds of New Year’s money to children and the elderly when you go home. You are so shabby that you don’t even have the courage to visit relatives.

In life, there are always a few people around us who look taciturn, don’t be close to people in life, or even be incompatible. To you, they are so lonely, but please put away your mercy. They have their own world in their hearts, which is a pure land that others cannot touch. It is magnificent and astonishing, full of vitality and the wild nature. The land of them is already lively enough, without the need for the worldly noise. And the so-called loneliness and indifference are just external defenses!

They are full of thorns, most afraid that others will be nice to them. Few people can enter their hearts and are motivated and serious about their work; they are simple but not decadent for their life; they are just as clean as long as their circle is small.

is right, I am the same person. Sometimes I think I am a socially useless person; introverted, withdrawn and indifferent (even if there are beautiful women around me, I don’t feel disturbed in my heart)

I have few friends, and my first reaction to an unfamiliar party is always to refuse. If I really can’t refuse, I will only sit in the corner and eat quietly. I never take the initiative to speak or add anyone’s WeChat. Some people think I am withdrawn, and some people feel sorry for me, but only I know that I like this kind of self, the circle is simple and clean; I don’t have to deliberately please anyone, because I understand that life is the most important thing, but in fact it is to please myself. What we should learn to get along with is not others, but ourselves. In the past, I always feel that the lively life is equal to happiness and beauty.

After experiencing some things, I now understand that many troubles in life may be because we waste too much time on unimportant people. Life is not as long as we imagined. You don’t have to call friends to make yourself in a group. You have to make money well and then leave time to those who are worth it.

(A person's immaturity is not caused by age, but by the experience of being "beaten" by society and life)

Teacher Wang Zhiwen said in " Tiandao ": I no longer quarrel with others now, because I began to realize that everyone can only think about problems from their own cognitive perspective. So, if someone tells you that one plus one equals three, you just need to smile and say to him: Yes, you are so awesome.

, right? What a simple thing, it doesn’t harm others and is selfish, why not do it? Someone wants to say that this is too hypocritical and there will be no friends; but think about yourself, you have no value or mutual benefits, then whether you have friends is the same, because you are a waste, just a joke about others’ tea wine after meals. I pity you still take yourself seriously.

But if one day you become successful and others say that one plus one equals three, then you can correct it with him. Confidence comes from strength, and correction comes from value; this is an eternal truth, because at this time, others take you seriously.

Never debate with others, and it is difficult for you to convince others because of different positions, because there is no right or wrong, no principles, only interests. ; Adhere to principles because interests are not enough. If people want to have a long-term comfortable relationship, they rely on commonality and attraction, rather than blind efforts and moral self-touching.

I earn 100 yuan a day, and if you scold me, I will get angry; if I earn 1,000 yuan a day, and if you scold me, I will be disdainful; if I earn 10,000 yuan a day, and if you scold me, I don’t care, and I will even sympathize with you.

What is a pattern? The pattern is supported by grievances, is plated with money, and is realized through experience.

The most loss-making thing in the world is to be moved by what has not happened yet; anxious about the result I imagined; and the principle of my doing things is: whether to do it from the heart, whether to take risks, or not, or should I do it from the perspective of ability? Is it cost-effective to start from the results? Instead of someone telling me, am I right? The same knife, you want to cook, I want to fight, and get more of what I want.

Have money to do things well, but don’t have money to do people well. Snakes don’t know they are poisonous, and people don’t know they are wrong.

Your goodness is like a candy to others, it will disappear after eating, while your badness is like a scar, which will exist forever for others.

A talented person will always have some highlights; I, a senior, have a successful career, I said, why do you have to rush home in the middle of the night after doing business? Isn’t it tired like this? He said he was tired, but I would rather go home and sleep for a while and I could continue working the next afternoon. If I didn’t rush back, I would waste a lot of time on the way back the next day, and I couldn’t work when I went back~~~ So the more successful the person is, the harder he works!

And these people are role models for you to learn from. One sentence and one thing may really inspire you, even if you are very strict with you. On the contrary, those who spend time and enjoy the money, although they have short-term happiness, they are what really waste your time, erase your fighting spirit, and make you have no sense of crisis. On the surface, they enjoy it but actually harm yourself.

When there is no money or resources, there is no dignity. Even if there is, it is not earned by oneself, but given by others! If you have money and power, you will have weight if you say something; if you have no money and power, you will be like a joke.Even if you are unwilling to admit it, it is often the case!

What you are missing is money, don’t say anything about Wood overcomes earth , earth overcomes water, water overcomes fire, fire overcomes metal! As long as you are poor, everything will defeat you! Only by working hard to make money can you overcome heaven, earth, and life!

money is a good thing. It can make people no longer panic and make people feel confident. It is like an iron that can smooth out all the wrinkles of life. Rich people are not as happy as you imagined, only happiness that you can't imagine. Although they are rich, they have also lost some things, such as: troubles!

When you are short of money once, you will truly understand that lack of money often means lack of confidence and no right to make a decision. And we are not children who can rely on acting cute and tricked in front of our parents!

Why is an adult man sometimes looking melancholy and often with tears in his eyes? It is because he pretends to be relatives and family in his heart. He hates himself for being unsuccessful at a young age, hates himself for being mediocre, and hates himself for being moved to comfort himself for being late...

If you have such a person around you, please give him a cigarette and give him a deep hug!