If the mountain doesn’t come, I will go. There are many things in life that we cannot change, or that we cannot change for the time being. At this time, we only say that others don’t like you, which means you still have shortcomings; if others disagree with your point of view, it

If the mountain doesn’t come, I will go. There are many things in life that we cannot change, or that we cannot change for the time being. At this time, we only say that others don’t like you, which means you still have shortcomings; if others disagree with your point of view, it means you don’t. Have changed myself. If you do well; if others cannot accept you, it means you are not mature enough. If we don’t succeed, we don’t find a way to succeed. To change, you must first change yourself. Only by changing yourself can you ultimately change others; only by changing yourself can you change your world. So, if the mountain doesn't come, let's go over. Those who appreciate the wise will know the wise. Those who conquer others are stronger, and those who conquer themselves are stronger. When we treat others, we should think from a different perspective. What about ourselves? Read the story below.

Xiaogao used to play outside too late, so he had to walk home at night. On the road, he passed by a wasteland and the road was pitch black. Xiao Gao cursed while walking, regretting that he had thrown the lighter away, but now he doesn't even have a lighter. Just as he was complaining, a light suddenly appeared in front of him and gradually approached him. So Xiao Gao stepped forward and walked under the light. Xiao Gao realized that the person walking with a flashlight was actually a blind man and walked towards the light. Blind man wearing sunglasses. Xiao Gao was surprised, so he asked the blind man: "You can't see, the flashlight is useless to you, why do you still need to carry the flashlight?" After hearing Xiao Gao's words, the blind man sighed slowly. He gasped and said, "You don't know, this road is too dark, people often can't see me. They hurried over and accidentally knocked me down. I had to walk with a flashlight. Although I can't see others, others can see me, and they will not knock me down again."

British playwright Shaw once said, "When problems arise, people often blame the environment. In fact, you should try to adapt to the environment around you. If you can't adapt, you must create the environment yourself." In this story, the smart blind man knows how to be flexible and flexible and create an environment that suits him, which can be said to be altruistic. Life is full of surprises and changes. Those who only know to follow the past or be satisfied with the present will inevitably lose their future. A person should be like this blind man, knowing how to turn around in time and think in reverse. Find ways to get out of the situation. The difficulty is not as complicated as you think. Just change the angle and you can see it more clearly.