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Real maturity is not to live to a certain age, but to reach a certain age, no longer naive, no longer simple, and no longer doing unrealistic and childish things.
Some people still don’t understand even when they reach the age of eighty, because they are protected too well and have lived too smoothly in their lives. They have never experienced great sorrow or great suffering at all.
And some people, even if they are only in their teens, have experienced the sufferings of the world early and their minds become extremely mature. There is no comparison between
. Sometimes age cannot be explained by anything, it is really just a number.
When a person becomes unwilling to speak or interact with others, it is often because he suddenly sees through some things and understands certain truths at a certain moment, so his previous self is completely broken, recombining, and then becomes a brand new self.
1: I became unwilling to speak because I saw through it and understood it
people are often naive when they have not experienced certain things and have high expectations for interpersonal relationships. At that time, I thought that if I treat others, I would treat myself as much as I would.
It was not until one day when someone was exploited or hurt that he suddenly realized that interpersonal relationships are not equivalent exchanges, nor do you get the rewards as much as you pay.
On the contrary, some people may think you are too stupid, but it is easy to bully and easy to use.
At this time, you will be completely disappointed and will not want to talk or interact with others, because you will understand after seeing through it. In the days to come, I just want to become more affectionate and cruel. Only in this way can I better protect myself.
2: I became like to be alone because I became mature and strong
Modern people live a fast pace and always walk in a hurry. I rarely have time to calm down and get along with myself calmly. Most of the time, we are in a noisy crowd, either working non-stop, running business outside, accompanying customers, or dealing with leaders and colleagues, etc.
Even if you can stop occasionally, you will choose to sleep at home, and no one wants to see you.
Sometimes, I even have too much time to spend with my family and children because I am too tired, so I ignore my parents and miss my children's growth. But what can I do? We are really too tired to live.
So have you found it? It is a rare thing for adults to be alone.
As Gao Xiaosong once mentioned in an interview, when a person reaches a certain age, he will find that being alone is becoming more and more luxurious, which is simply a luxury. You have old people and young people, you have so many things to do and so much work to be busy with. It is not that easy to be alone with yourself.
This is also the reason why many people hide in the car after get off work and dare not go home directly.
only has a short time, he belongs to him, and after he returns home, he becomes a husband or a father. He has new responsibilities and obligations. He cannot consider himself and he wants to be the pillar of the entire family.
And those who dare to be alone are often very mature and strong in their hearts because they don’t have to act according to other people’s faces, don’t have to compromise, don’t have to say insincere words because they are afraid of being fired, and don’t have to live without self-reality because they care too much about other people’s evaluations. People like
are really not simple.
If you are at this moment, you also like to be alone, don’t care about those dispensable interpersonal relationships, and just want to live a good life with all your heart, then it means that you are very strong inside, you are enviable, and you live extremely sober.
at the end:
People often go from naivety to rationality and maturity.
During this journey, we inevitably have to suffer a lot of hardships and suffer a lot of pain, but it doesn’t matter, these are just a preparation that must be made to make us mature.
If one day, you see through many things and see clearly many people, and you become less and less willing to talk or interact with others, and you prefer to be alone more and more. This means that your heart is becoming stronger step by step.
people don’t care about the evaluations of the outside world or the opinions of others, so that they can truly be true to their hearts and live for themselves. This is a blessing.
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