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Sometimes we think of a question: we always want to change ourselves, but has it changed in the end? It seems that nothing has changed.
When you find that you have not changed, you will feel that why can’t you control yourself? Why not live your own way of thinking?
Some people will control their time very well and arrange them very well. should do what you should do and what level of doing it, you have a proper mind , but in the end you will find that such a person lives a really good life.
We are always pursuing change, which means that we have not reached the state we are satisfied with, so we will ask ourselves to keep changing. But has it really changed? It seems that there is no real change, it is just form.
Generally speaking, life will not be as we wish, but will only satisfy our partial satisfaction. If everyone gets their wish, then they will find that everything is so boring and lonely.
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There must be an expectation in your heart. What is this expectation? It is your own nature. When we think about the essence of a problem carefully, we can basically persevere in doing it.
For example: I practice speech every day. Once I practice for a long time, the essential changes will occur, and I will find confidence in the speech process and have my own light.
We need to change our routine and ask ourselves to go to bed before 11 o'clock every night. Then at this time we should give ourselves a signal: once we approach 11 o'clock, we will lie in bed, and other things will be put aside first, and there is no need to manage them.
Wait for the next day to wake up before managing. This is a ability, and it is also a habit.
When we stick to the routine of one year, two years, three years, five years, and ten years, then we will invisibly change ourselves. This is a change.
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people's changes are actually quite simple. It is that has identified a principle and insisted on this principle, so the change will naturally lead to .
Many people feel that they cannot change, because they have not received rewards and rewards from changes.
people need to be rewarded. What is this reward? It is that in the process of change, you slowly experience your own progress and growth. This kind of thing is wonderful and will bring you more pleasure.
people must create more pleasure for themselves.
What causes a person to be unhappy and unhappy for a long time? Maybe they will feel deep in their hearts: if this thing is done, if this thing is busy, if this thing is done, if this thing is done, they will be happy and happy.
But I don’t know that this is not the case. Once these things are busy, I still feel unhappy and unhappy. Other things about anxiety and worry come.
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A person who knows how to be happy and happy is different. They will feel that the unhappy things in the past are the previous things. They should now reflect their happy state, so they should reflect them, and be able to fully reflect their current happy emotions. Then their state will be very good at this time.
There are many things in life that are not what we want, but how we practice and practice in this process.
Don’t be anxious about your current state. Even if the current state is a mess, it doesn’t matter. What is the point? You can continue to change what you want.
Don’t think that the change starts tomorrow, just start changing from now on.
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