01 Being able to speak is ability, knowing how to advance and retreat is ability
A writer said: "People who can talk can let others come out of the framework, while those who can't speak often put frames on others."
Have good thoughts in mind. People never use bad words to define others.
What kind of attitude a person uses often means that he is that person.
The degree of speaking is the size of being a human being.
A soft tongue can break a person's muscles and bones. Language can sometimes hurt people more than violence.
The so-called words are the voice of the heart. Those behaviors that only seek to vent their own emotions and ignore the feelings of others are essentially selfish. The charm of
is not to strive for the first place when speaking.
language is like a person's tag. People who speak with a proper attitude know how to put themselves in others' shoes and will empathize with others . When the other party is sad and depressed, he will give timely encouragement and praise.
02 Words are warm, be careful when speaking
The way a person speaks hides his attitude and cultivation as a human being.
I wonder if you have ever met such people. They are so stupid that they can't speak, and they say whatever they want and do whatever they want.
So many times unhappy people around them, but they didn't notice it at all.
is a well-educated person. Before speaking, he will think about what words will make the other person unhappy and what words are appropriate.
A person's words are like an ice knife and arrow, venting his emotions rampantly. Even if he is expressing concern, it is difficult for the people around him to feel the warmth.
"Talking good to others is warmer than cloth ; hurting people with words is deeper than spears and halberds."
The injuries suffered by the body can heal within a few days, but how long does it take for the trauma to heal? It is better to understand more and blame less among people.
Ask yourself: Since you have a tofu heart, why bother with a knife?
03 People with kind thoughts know how to respect others better
A person’s mouth is a person’s spiritual portal.
A gentle and kind person can't bear to speak coldly and ill.
A person's words can really save a wounded heart.
Good words and bad words, redemption or harm, are often only in one thought.
A kind-hearted person and soft-speaking person always pretends to be others in his heart.
It is their most basic cultivation to be considerate of others.
So-called, a good word can warm up in three winters.
A kind-hearted person is not because he speaks very skillfully, but because he can put himself in his shoes and take care of others' feelings. He uses words to make people feel like a spring breeze, giving people strength and courage.
Instead of treating straightforwardness as an excuse, it is better to give people a kind look.
would rather shut up than bully the weak in words.
Save face for others and also give yourself decent. If you have virtue in your mouth, you have goodness in your heart.
Photography丨Xishan Watch
Source丨Xinhua News Agency, articles have been deleted and modified
Producer 丨Ou Can Zhang Xiaohui
Editorial review丨Liu Jianwei Yan Shan Xiefei
Editor丨Yan Pei
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