Text/Feiyu In fact, most of us are ordinary. No matter how capable or outstanding you are, you can never do enough to make everyone like you. As I grow older, I feel more and more that there is no need to force yourself to be perfect in life, but accepting your own imperfections

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In fact, most of us are ordinary. No matter how capable or outstanding you are, you can never do enough to make everyone like you.

As I grow older, I feel more and more that there is no need to force yourself to be perfect in life, but accepting your own imperfections and learning to reconcile with yourself is a required course in life.

Unknowingly, I have entered the second half of my life and am on the road to becoming a five-year-old.

After a person turns fifty, he becomes more and more aware of things, reality, and people's hearts. He no longer insists on anything, no longer persists, and finally learns to live a life of letting things go.

After a person turns fifty, he realizes life while walking. It is painful, heavy and real. The most painful realization of life is as follows. I will encourage you together.

1. Everything in life is fate. What comes with fate will come naturally if you don’t ask for it. What is not in fate cannot be forced.

Only after a person reaches fifty does he gradually recognize reality and life. Many things are doomed, including fate, gains and losses.

When you are alive, there are some things that you desire but cannot force. The more you force, the more you will lose. Learn to let nature take its course, and everything will be fine.

Only after fifty people can see clearly that they are not suitable for their own circle. If you really don’t want to force yourself into it, otherwise you will be the clown.

It’s not about having many circles, it’s about being suitable. A circle in which you feel comfortable getting along is the most important, but if you force yourself into a circle that is not destined to belong to you, you will also be disappointed.

As I turn fifty, I understand more and more that some people and some things are destined, and you can’t force it. Only by looking away from everything can you live comfortably. Don’t struggle too hard, don’t be too persistent, and tell yourself that everything is for the best. arrange.

2. Only after you reach your fifties do you understand: young couples stay with each other as they grow older, and everything has a cause and effect.

Husband and wife are of the same mind, and their strength breaks through metal. However, some couples can exchange hardships, but cannot share wealth and wealth. It is all due to inner greed. Such couples are destined to not make it to the end.

The key to a couple who can make it to the end, from the beginning to the end, throughout their entire lives, is to stay together through thick and thin, understand each other, support each other, tolerate each other, understand each other, and benefit from each other.

Husband and wife are not just partners, they are partners in life. Whether two people can make it to the end together depends on whether they have trust and whether they are loyal enough.

Marriage is not one person’s business, and family is not one person’s responsibility. It requires two people to run it together, face it together, cherish each other, depend on each other, see each other’s goodness, and maintain a good family relationship together. Be a lifelong partner and stay with us for life.

3. Only when you are over fifty do you understand: In this life, you have to rely on yourself after all, and no one can count on you.

More than half of your life, all your achievements are actually achieved through your own efforts.

In this life, no matter what kind of life you want to live or what kind of life you can live, you cannot rely on others, but you must learn to rely on yourself.

The path of life is your own choice. No matter how hard it is, you must go on. Don't leave your destiny to others. You must take it yourself.

Life is really hard, and you can only overcome it by yourself. The only person who can save yourself is yourself.

When people reach middle age, they should become their own backers instead of relying on anyone else. No matter how difficult or painful life is, we must hold on and get through it.

Never think that you have a good relationship with others. No matter what happens to you, someone will help you.

In fact, this is not the case. It is often the most dangerous to overestimate the relationship between people.Once someone betrays you, once someone hurts you, you have no way out.

After half a lifetime, I have deeply realized that the most reliable thing is to learn to keep things to yourself and rely on yourself.

4. Only when you are over fifty can you understand: all the blessings in life are earned by yourself.

Blessings in life are not given to you by others, but earned by yourself. It depends on your words and deeds.

If you work hard to make progress, God will naturally live up to your efforts. Even if things sometimes go against your wishes, it is temporary. After all, one day, all your efforts will be transformed into a kind of blessing and come to you. Let you have a cheating life, it depends on whether you can be patient, whether you can hold on, hold on, and persist until the end, there will definitely be a turn for the better.

If you are kind and do good deeds without asking about your future, God will not treat you badly.

The ancients said: : There is no way for misfortunes and blessings, but people bring it on themselves, and the rewards of good and evil follow them like a shadow.

The blessings in life are all caused by your own cause and effect, and the cause and effect are all in your own hands. If you sow good causes, you will get good results; if you sow evil causes, you will get bad results.

Therefore, all blessings in life depend on how you behave and do things. Just be yourself, owe nothing to others, and have a clear conscience, and God will naturally give you the best arrangements.

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