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In worldly life, no one can live in isolation. Everyone needs to deal with others, establish relationships with others, and have emotional exchanges.
A person who has no close friends is like living on an isolated island. No matter how noisy the outside world is, it has nothing to do with him. The whole person will feel helpless, like duckweed, drifting without care.
There are always things we need to talk to others, and there are always moments we want others to accompany us, so we need to take the initiative to open our hearts, invite some people into our lives, and maintain good communication.
Sometimes, because of loneliness, I mistakenly show my heart to some unworthy people, and sometimes, because I don’t understand people well, I am played like a fool by others.
It wasn’t until I was hurt and let down that I finally woke up. It turns out that not everyone is worthy of being invited into life, and not everyone is worthy of your sincerity.
Any relationship must be based on respect. Two people respect each other, appreciate each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, and exchange sincerity with sincerity. Only in this way can the relationship keep moving forward steadily.
If a person has no respect for you, then the relationship is not worth maintaining, and cutting it off in time is the wisest way.
From the way a person talks to you, you can tell his basic attitude towards you. People who always talk to you like this actually despise you from the bottom of their hearts, so stop interacting with them.
likes to command you with a commanding tone.
In any relationship, respect must be the premise. You must pay attention to a certain sense of propriety when speaking and pay more attention to your tone. This is the correct way to get along with others.
Even in the relationship between superiors and subordinates, the more respectable bosses are, they will not be overly domineering, but can lower their posture and get along with their subordinates in a peaceful way.
In daily interactions, two people will maintain a certain degree of politeness when talking to each other, even if they have a good relationship. They can hurt each other, they can make demands of each other in a teasing way, and they can also act coquettishly and cutely. But never use a condescending attitude to boss people around.
If someone often uses a commanding tone to order you around, in fact, in the bottom of her heart, she looks down on you and feels that she is superior to you.
In "The Second Embrace", Fang Yuan returns to the workplace, and Xiaobai, who joins the company with her, was hired by the company with a lot of money.
Fang Yuan, as a stay-at-home mother who had been away from the workplace for many years, was faced with many difficulties. No one believed in her ability, especially Xiaobai, who looked down on her at all. There was a hint of bossiness in her speech, always giving orders to her and trying to do everything she could. she.
She didn't agree with Fang Yuan's ability from the bottom of her heart. She felt that she couldn't keep up with the trend of the times and was unable to do the job. She regarded herself as arrogant and felt that she was capable and looked down on her.
For a person who often orders you around with a commanding tone, her contempt for you is already obvious. Whether in the workplace or in life, there is no need to give her a good look when you meet such a person. The weaker you are and give in. , will only make her worse. Be tougher in unavoidable situations. There is no need to interact in private, just keep the distance between strangers.
always denies your suggestions and undermines your self-confidence.
A relationship worthy of careful care and a person worthy of sincerity must be the one who can see your light and give you support and appreciation.
Even if the whole world denies you and doesn't think highly of you, he will always stick by your side and give you great support and encouragement.
He will listen carefully to what you say, and will give you feedback in a timely manner. He will respect your ideas and take your feelings into consideration.
He will accommodate you in small things, support and encourage you in big things. In his heart, you are the shining star, and he will always stand by your side.
And if a person always hits you habitually, every suggestion you make is rejected, and he will never respect and adopt your suggestions. To put it bluntly, he doesn't respect you at all and there is no need to interact with you anymore.
I once fell in love. I had no self-confidence in the first place and became even more inferior after being with him. He always had reasons to deny what I said and did.
He is always able to find fault with my choices when ordering food, the positioning of restaurants, travel plans, and weekend itineraries, as well as my choice of friends and career, and the most common thing he says is " Whatever you can do, you can't do anything well."
For a lover who always hits you, don’t think it’s because of the way he talks or that he’s doing it for your own good. In fact, it’s because he looks down on you and doesn’t agree with you, so he’s picky about everything and always hits you. Treat you like this The best choice is to stay away from the person in time.
Make fun of your shortcomings and ridicule you
I have seen such a video. The heroine is a fat girl. In order to fit in with other girls, she has always played a role of pleasing.
She thought that as long as she was good enough and generous enough to them, she could be treated equally, but she was wrong.
They always made fun of her figure, and their words were full of sarcasm. They laughed at her clothes, her hairstyle, and that she had never been in love and that no boy could fall in love with her.
In this circle, she plays the role of a photographer, errand runner, and bill payer, but every time she takes a photo, she is deleted, and every time she pays, she is met with blank looks and disgust from them.
It wasn’t until later that girls finally realized that the circles are different and there is no need to force integration. For those who have never looked at you, no matter how much you do, you can’t win their sincerity. In the end, it is just a waste of time and energy. .
Those who make fun of your shortcomings actually despise you from the bottom of their hearts. No matter how much you do, you can't change their attitude towards you, and they will even despise you more and ignore your feelings.
Stop interacting with people like this, and don’t use your sincerity to please rotten people.
How a person talks to you represents your status in his mind.
You can tell his true attitude towards you from the way he speaks and the tone of his voice.
If a person often uses the above methods to talk to you, it means that he looks down on you at all in his heart. At this time, no matter what you do, it will be useless. It is better to break off the relationship in time and find a clean place.
I would rather be alone than give my sincerity to someone who is not worthy of it. Sincerity is very expensive, so don’t waste it easily.
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