As we grow older, the passion deep inside our hearts gradually becomes colder and disappears. The once passionate young man has slowly turned into a greasy middle-aged man. Facing real life and experiencing the beatings of life, middle-aged people have to put down all their self-

As we grow older, the passion deep in our hearts gradually becomes colder and disappears. The once passionate young man has slowly turned into a greasy middle-aged man. Facing real life and experiencing the beatings of life, middle-aged people have to put down all their self-esteem. When people reach middle age, most people are ripened and pushed into life before they have grown up properly. It is difficult for middle-aged people to show their inner passion, and "greasy" has naturally become the protective color of middle-aged people.

went from being carefree and youthful and reckless back then to being preoccupied, silent and reserved now. What exactly makes middle-aged people ripe? The more experience people have, the more they understand that in this world, after all, there are more people watching the show and less helping people. Middle-aged people are gradually becoming more and more mature after being lost again and again. The years of hardship and various hardships have made middle-aged people no longer the wanton and frivolous people they used to be. All maturity is accelerated by experience. Middle-aged people have long been accustomed to disguising themselves, and they know that there is no point in saying it.

Losing edge and learning to compromise is a sign that middle-aged people are being matured. At this age, people no longer live just for themselves. Friends with different life trajectories and different values ​​are inevitably withdrawing from the circle of middle-aged friends. Compared to the excitement of youth, middle-aged people prefer to choose quietness and spend time with their families. Every middle-aged person will have times when he feels like crying and has no way to ask for help, but middle-aged people are used to facing life alone. Life experiences have matured middle-aged people. They like to face and bear alone.

Middle-aged people envy young people who dare to see, dare to listen, dare to laugh, dare to be surprised, dare to dream, and have the courage to face all the unknowns in life. Middle-aged people have become accustomed to being matured, and they are used to being contented, and have a heart that is not content with being contented. The blood in their hearts gradually becomes cold and disappears. Every greasy middle-aged person understands that greasiness is not what they want. In order to be able to shoulder the burden of life, middle-aged people have to be matured by society. Only when people settle down can they face life better.

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