Born in this world, it is very difficult to live alone. People come and go. Only when you help others will others be willing to help you.
Therefore, when we see others in need of help, we should actively and proactively provide the help we can. As the saying goes: " Give someone a rose, and the hand will leave a lingering fragrance ".
If we want to make our lives more colorful and better, we must learn to "give" more.
When you give, you not only improve your own ideological and moral cultivation, but also win the love and support of people around you.
The most important thing is that when "giving", you can truly feel the "inner happiness" of helping others, which will make your soul transcend and benefit you for life.
is given, convenient.
Everyone is eager to be recognized by others, and they also want others to provide convenience for themselves, so that when doing things, they can easily cope with it and get what they want.
To be convenient for others is to give convenience to yourself. Just as you give others a helping hand when they need help and think about them, in the future, others will naturally provide you with the convenience they can. To put it bluntly, giving convenience to others means Convenience yourself.
give me face.
China is a humane society. Wherever there are people interacting, you can often hear the familiar four words "Give me face".
In general civil society, giving face and making conveniences is generosity and kindness. If you don't give others face, it is the greatest rudeness.
Many times, only by giving the other party a step down, seeing through without telling the truth, can you take better care of face. Don’t hurt someone’s face when you hurt them, and don’t poke people’s hearts when you poke them. Otherwise, you will get nothing in return, or even revenge for kindness.
gives, integrity.
There is a line in the movie "The Intouchables": "In fact, many times, you don't need to do anything, just be sincere."
The most feared thing in communication between people is concealment and disguise. When you are sincere Only by communicating with others can you completely open their hearts.
A person cannot stand without integrity, and a cunning person has no friends. If integrity is in the heart, success will follow. If integrity is lost, failure is common.
It is an honor to be trusted by others. It is a great happiness to have trustworthy people around you. People's hearts are only as strong as one's heart, and honesty only comes once. Therefore, please cherish it more and don't ignore it and abandon it.
Giving is always more enjoyable than taking. Learning to "give" is the most important required course in our lives.
As Gorky said: "If you leave people beautiful things no matter when and where you are, like flowers, good thoughts, and good memories of you, then your How happy life will be! At that time, you will feel that everyone needs you. "
Remember! Everyone has no umbrella when it rains. If you silently hold an umbrella for others during heavy rain, if rain falls on you in the future, there will be an umbrella on your shoulders.
How comfortable you are determines the height you can reach.
Master Hsing Yun said: "There are four benefits in life, which are to give people confidence, to give people joy, to give people hope, and to give people convenience."
It is an unchanging truth to provide convenience to others and to yourself; consider the other person. , planning for oneself is a top-notch wisdom.
You must remember to always give to others happily and take less from others. Learn to give and help others, and your life will definitely become more exciting and warm.
The vast sea of people, I am very happy that we met in this way.
I write that as you watch, life will move forward. Thank you for your support and encouragement, which makes our life better.
For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can illuminate ourselves and warm others.