When I was a child, I compared myself with other people’s children, when I went to school I compared myself with the top one in my class, when I worked I compared myself with my colleagues... After being in a comparison atmosphere for a long time, it is easy to lose sight of your own advantages and belittle your own value.
In most cases, we compare our own shortcomings with the strengths of others, which inevitably results in a big blow.
No one is perfect, no matter how good a person is, there will be shortcomings. If you ask Einstein to play football, there is a high probability that he will not achieve anything.
So what we want to do is find its own longboard and zoom it infinitely.
has no advantage? Think again!
Having a healthy body and not getting sick is also an important advantage. Getting sick means going to the hospital, spending money and energy, and not being able to do what you want to do.
You have a smart brain and are fluent in Mandarin . You have a beautiful smile that can soothe people's hearts. You have the ability to empathize and others are willing to talk and communicate with you. You have a kind heart and love to help others, etc.
I really can’t think of anything. You still have the important resource of time!
Good resources still need to be developed well, and they cannot cause gas explosions in small coal mines that are randomly mined.
In the face of gleaming advantages, no one will remember the shortcomings behind them. For example, everyone will admire a technical master and not care that his singing is terrible.
Go and manage your strengths and add value to your life.
In addition, taking some tests, such as Gallup Strengths, Type 16 Personality Test, etc., is a good way to help yourself discover your strengths.
Voilà,à la prochaine!
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