Why is there no progress despite working hard? This book made me stop internal friction and gave me enlightenment. Let’s see if the following is about you in front of the screen,
[crying] I have been working very hard, but why have I never been promoted or paid?
[Crying] Thinking too much and doing too little;
[Crying] bought a tablet to study, but ended up using it to watch dramas and playing games;
[Crying] bought various books and materials, but the results were delayed. Unopened;
[crying] was going to the library to read, but ended up spending the whole afternoon playing with his mobile phone;
[crying] had been making a list of plans, but he only lasted a day or two.
[crying] bought copybooks to practice calligraphy, and passed Just throw it aside if it loses the freshness.
You think you are working very hard, and every day seems to go according to plan, but in the end, your work and life are still not improving, and your life is in a mess. Before
, my state was like the above, but fortunately, I came across this book, which made me reflect on myself carefully and stopped years of internal friction. Fake efforts will harm you sooner or later.
1: Clear direction, formulate and implement plans.
Working hard is not running around, he needs direction and plan.
First of all, let’s put away the complaints of ‘Why do I still get nothing despite working so hard’.
Most of us know what kind of life we want to live and what kind of growth we want to gain. It’s just that I have never been able to distinguish between what I should do and what I want to do. Do what you have to do, and you will be better equipped to do what you want to do in the future.
Everyone should have their own dreams. Only when you have goals can you be motivated. It is never too late to start dreaming.
2: Have dreams and never give up.
Without ideals, how will our hearts rest? Even if it’s just a dream, let’s have a lively and vigorous dream.
What we need is to have the courage to ask for what we want, but courage does not mean not being afraid. It’s about having the courage to do what you have to do despite your fear.
Three: Stand on tiptoes and chase your dreams
We need to keep walking on the road of pursuing our dreams in order to not forget our original intention. Instead of compromising and envying those who persevere.
If you don’t pay, the world will guarantee that you will get nothing in return. You have to remember that if you run towards the moon, even if you can't reach it, you can at least become one of the stars.
4: The direction is wrong, some hardships are in vain
Soldiers who don’t want to be generals are not refusing to make progress. It’s just that in this society that is becoming more and more lost due to the noise of various successes, only by being more down-to-earth and more stable can you be on the road to the workplace. Go further and longer. Even if you haven't become a good boss, you can still be a good employee.
In the face of failure, we are always afraid of starting over because we are too lazy to pay and we are afraid that our efforts will not be rewarded, so we hide in our comfortable corner and pretend that we are weighing the pros and cons.
likes this sentence very much: It's not that I don't work hard, it's just that I don't use all my strength, because I have a bargaining chip to retreat. When I am tired and lazy, I can choose to rest, and behind her, it is like a cliff...
If I also regard myself as a cliff, then I may try my best to do everything well and achieve my dreams.
Life has no end, but life has limits. Pursuing an endless life with a limited life is not worth the gain. It is better to find the source of happiness from the existing life....
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