Cherish everything you have

A person often does not cherish what is on hand (or opportunity, or environment, or anything valuable), and regrets it until it is about to be lost.

——Fu Lei

People often have an illusion about what they already own, and they think that it should belong to me in the first place. It’s natural and proper, so I don’t care too much about it. , I always like to eat from the bowl and look at the pot, to pursue things that I never own.

This is just what you think personally. The more you care about, the easier it is to lose. It’s like something left in the corner. You won’t remember it. Maybe someday it will be cleaned. .

When you really lose, you start to regret it. At this time, you only think about how good the things you lost, but you also think of what is bad. Just like a lost lover, all you can think of It's her good.

At this time, the psychological cost of owning this thing will become very high, and even want to spend more to re-own it. But many things, no matter how high the money is, will not help, like missed opportunities, lost lovers.