It’s only in middle age that people understand that ideals are meaningful work and interpersonal relationships.



Rui Dalio wrote in the book " Principles" that: 11 strongspan_strong_strong_span_strong_span_strong_span14sp16 To develop meaningful interpersonal relationships,

is what I have worked hard and improved all my life!

Creatively choose the best to make my life more successful

Yes!

Ideals are the foundation of reality. Without ideals you cannot face reality.


My father has worked hard all his life, but he is still strong to

I have raised an adult! He supported the whole family, and when I needed

, he would do his best to give it to me.

He said, you are my pride, I didn't know my father before,

but now I understand.


Father may not know what the ideal is?

But everything he did was expressed in another unpretentious way of

-father's ideal.


You might say that what the father is facing is only reality!

But have you ever thought about it, there is no reality? Where is the ideal

My father's ideal is my family and me. When you recognize the reality of

, face reality, and solve problems, you will start to grow up with

.


Many young people of us now,

Are you worthy of the word reality?

You dare not face the reality, how can you be worthy of your ideals?


Real heroes should be like their fathers. No matter their life,

dare to cross the river by touching the stones in life. Experienced life and death, no

fear of life and death, a big deal. And now you, sleep

, feel complacent, full of confidence, you must adjust the direction of

, and change your past mistakes; after waking up, you still look like a dead

pig is not afraid of boiling water.


The ideal is that after you recognize the reality, you understand the

agreement, and you know how to face reality to reach the ideal.

has a solution, has a strong willpower, dare to start

again. Only in this way, you will not be addicted to any kind of

trap that hinders you from achieving your ideal process.


Thoughts are very important, and my life is very important.


Your thoughts determine how strong your combat effectiveness is. Only by turning your thoughts into a strong fortress

will you have the opportunity to

to drive your ship to the other shore.


Looking back, your journey:

What are you like as an 18-year-old?

What do you look like when you are 20?

What do you look like at 23 years old?

now,What do you want to be in the future?


Past experience is not bad. People will only wake up after experiencing

and constantly taking time to try and make mistakes. Every

personal awakening stage is different.

When you realize these things, don't regret it.

because it cannot be repeated. But for every good or bad experience

, you should be as sober as remembering history.

only that. You may not make the same mistake the second time

is wrong!


I don't remember the value of

brought to me by my youth before. But now I know clearly, and

will calm down and think slowly every day. Does everything and thoughts I do every day

deviate from the ideal track?

or impractical.


After I recognize the reality, I become more fond of reading,

writing, thinking about every day no matter how tired I will pick up a pen, write

something or read a few pages, if the work is too busy, also

will think that I should read a book, or take a rest in a few days, do you want

not to go to the bookstore to buy some books to improve yourself?


Knowledge is indeed power. He can make you take less

Many detours, spend a lot of money that shouldn't be spent. Also

can take you to another world.


You can't make a lot of money, but you can't make money without thinking

, and you still live all day in the time arranged by others, then

should be so tiring! That shouldn't be your life!


To defend your thoughts, you need to keep learning,

diligently and continuously! Not everyone can.

If you do not wake up, you can only live for others in this life.


Meaningful work:

In your position, you can work hard and evolve efficiently, quickly understand

yourself and your environment, and make continuous progress by changing reality

creatively.

Meaningful interpersonal relationships:

Like home, it has strict love.


I hope my experience sharing can give you a little help

Author|Tuk Ye Xing|

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