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The Buddha said: "Bitterness is not bitterness, happiness is not happiness. It's just a momentary obsession."
People are really tired when they mix up in society. The most tired thing is heart tiredness. We always think that if we have money, we have everything, but we don't know that more money is also a scourge.
The state is born from the heart, and things change with the heart, and the troubles happen to be yours. If you don’t have it, why bother?
Sometimes, persistence is a mistake, and there will be no results in pursuit. It is better to let go with a smile, no matter what happens, what you encounter, withdraw, leave it alone, don’t think about it.
has nothing, that is, has everything.
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For the sake of fame, I will be sleepy for a lifetime.
Tang dynasty monk Dongshan Zen master, was later awarded the posthumous title of "Wu Ben Zen Master" by Tang Yizong , and built the "Huijue Pagoda", which shows his great reputation and profound accomplishments.
In his twilight years, he felt that he was going to die. He said: "Who can remove the idle name for me?" People around
don't know what to do.
A young monk stood up and asked : "Excuse me, what is the monk's dharma name?"
Zen Master Dongshan, he passed away contentedly.
What is a "free name"? It is the honor that one has won, the name that is remembered, and the halo of admiration. Only when you get rid of it, can you return to the basics and return to the original point of life.
When we were born, we didn’t have a name,Later, there was a name, which was just a code name.
The reality tells us that everyone’s name cannot be monopolized, and others can take the same name as you. For example, Zhang San, Li Si, Wang Wu, such names can be used by anyone, and there are even hundreds of people with the same name.
is a very rare word, some people use it as a name, and they think it can be used alone. In fact, it is impossible.
There are only a few thousand Chinese characters commonly used in China, with a population of more than one billion. Who can enjoy a word alone?
In addition to the name, you should give up your "halo".
We are a country of etiquette. At all times, we must be humble and low-key.
When people interact with others, you must take off your hat before bowing to others. On some occasions, wearing a hat is itself impolite behavior. When bowing, you have to bend over, and the hat will easily fall off. If the hat has a long strap or top, it may touch others.
Therefore, taking off your hat and learning to look down is the best choice.
Visible hats can be taken off, but how to take off invisible hats?
Your honor and achievements are not to be proud of. If you keep it in your heart, you will hurt yourself. Living with a halo, you are above others, and you will be proud and complacent.
The "infamy" you carry is like a needle, always pierced in your heart. If you put it down and re-behave, the infamy will cease to exist. If you’re good, you’ll also get likes from others.
Economist Jia Lai said: "The crown of honour in the world is woven from thorns."
Put down your "name",Only then can you live a real life, and only then can you integrate into the big family of society.
Always tell yourself that you are an ordinary person and there is nothing special about you, so you will not be so tired.
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In order to benefit, we will tire our lives.
" Zhuangzi. Let the king " recorded such a story.
King Chu Zhao lost his country, Tuyang said that he has been fleeing with him and will never leave.
Later, King Chu Zhao took back the lost land and became king again. He decided to reward those who flee with him.
Slaughter the sheep said that he would never give any rewards. He said : "How can I be greedy for the lords, and make my prince have the name of arrogance! If I dare not be, I would like to go back to my slaughter of sheep."
This sentence means, he Can you get the reputation of being randomly rewarded by the monarch because of your greed for official position and salary? He couldn't accept it, and only hoped to return to the workshop that killed the sheep.
The life of slaughter sheep is to kill sheep and sell mutton, and live your own life well. Any reward is "no merit and no reward" and will only destroy the reputation of the monarch. This is meaningless and cannot be done.
People die for money, and birds die for food.
People who are greedy for profit will have no good results after all. However, we are still greedy for profit. No matter how much money you have, you will not be satisfied.
often ask my heart? Tired?
When you are tired, you find that the world is full of money, and there is profit in your eyes. You stare at other people's positions, and you can't wait for the money in other people's pockets to come into your own pocket.
Look at the people who invest blindly, the businessmen who make high prices, and the people who make money without a conscience, you will know how tired it is to be a human being.
There is a businessman who made tens of millions, but it was painful. He asked the Zen master how to be happy.
The Zen master brought a glass of water and said: "You can add some water here."
The businessman said: "It's full, how can I add water?"
The Zen master smiled, and the businessman suddenly became cheerful.
The writer Ostrovsky said: "When the surroundings are bleak, people only care about personal matters. All his happiness lies in the family and is based on small personal interests. In the circle."
The more profit-seeking people, the more they care about themselves, and they don’t care about society at all. By distributing the benefits to the public, you will be integrated into society and you will have value.
There is something to give up, and to give up is to get.
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For love, suffering for life.
"I hope that one day, I can say to you happily and proudly, no matter the disease, no matter the hardship, I will go on with you, and we will stay together and never leave."
When we are in love, we Treat each other as the only lover, always have confidence, and live together.
However, when people reach a certain age, after experiencing love, they are tired of love and will also look for other love.
Extramarital love is really a lot; it is common to have two boats with one foot.
If you love the wrong person, you don’t know how to turn around; if you are hurt, you don’t know how to refuse. Infatuated people, passionate people, are always hurt.
What is love in the world? Directly teach life and death.
People who don’t know how to withdraw from love, cannot be single-minded, then the heart is divided into several parts. Isn’t this the pain of "heart-piercing"?
The world is endless, but the obsessive you has entered a dead end and is not willing to look back.
Life is a process, do everything and obey the destiny.
Author: Commoner Coarse Food.
The picture in the article comes from the Internet.
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