What is the best life state you have ever seen?
Some people say: The eyes are full of stories, and there is no wind and frost on the face.
is born. Everyone has to go through the hardest days. When you fall into the trough of life, you will feel helpless and disappointed. Because I was too young and lacked wisdom and experience, I always hit a wall everywhere.
In interpersonal relationships, mature people will not appear to be very public or overly sensitive.
You can get along with everyone in a peaceful mood, but everyone has a different personality. After getting along for a long time, conflict is unavoidable.
Life is a long journey. When you have not prepared enough equipment, your life will be messy.
But when you continue to experience and settle down, no matter how rugged the road is, you can calmly step on it.
Difficulties will always appear, depending on whether you have the courage to fight.
some people,Born plain, but never admit defeat; some people look mediocre, but full of charm; some people are muddy deep, but still positive and optimistic.
The growth process requires constant practice to reach higher places.
We are all good at disguising. Some people seem to live a very good life and look very confident, but they are actually very fragile inside, so looking at the surface does not prove anything.
The better sign a person crosses is actually these six characters.
When the two people interact with each other more and more closely, it’s impossible to please
span5. The point of view is the same once. When conflicts arise, some people will subconsciously please the other party, and it is difficult to express their true inner thoughts.
If a person feels that he needs to please others in order to gain recognition and understanding, then his interpersonal relationship will not be very good, and it is difficult for him to feel happy in his heart.
Especially in business relationships, some girls think that as long as they do their best,If you listen to the other party for everything, you can win all the love.
However, when you overgratulate someone, what you can bring to you in the end is not love, but contempt and disregard.
In the book "Resolving Our Inner Conflict", it is especially emphasized that if you want to win love and respect, the most important thing is not to please others.
When a person crosses the better, the most obvious behavior is: unpleasant.
sounds simple. For those who have lived in a loving family since childhood, it is too easy to be unpleasant.
But in life, there are many girls who are not so lucky to be held in their hands like little princesses.
In their cognition, only by constantly ingratiating themselves can they gain the love and recognition of others, and they can gain more security in their hearts.
It is not easy to change a pleasing personality. First of all, you need to understand that getting along with people will inevitably bring conflicts. No matter how well you do, you cannot meet everyone's needs.
So don’t be afraid to hear different sounds,Don't worry about rejecting others, which will cause more trouble.
In addition, you have to learn to be yourself so that you can become more peaceful in your heart, and you will not be too troubled by gains and losses.
Joey (pseudonym) had two romantic relationships, and she was all involved in real relationships, but luck was very bad. The boy she likes is not worth relying on and trusting.
In these two romances, Joey was cheated, causing her to become very unconfident.
During the relationship, Joey will always subconsciously please the other person, it is difficult to be the true self.
In fact, she doesn't like wearing skirts and high heels. She prefers to wear sports and casual style clothes. However, her boyfriend always rejected her dressing as being too rustic, and was unwilling to take her to meet with friends.
In order to make the other person's heart beat, Joey constantly changes himself, even in the end he forgets who he is.
But even though Joey has tried his best, he still failed to get the love he wanted. Later, she finally woke up, no longer deliberately to please others, but to know how to love herself more.
Joey after 30 years old,Not as others have said, quickly find a guy who is similar to marry.
Instead, she worked silently. She lives the way she likes. When she meets a boy who doesn't like or has a bad character, Joey will immediately refuse.
Whether it is dealing with life or feelings, Joey has become more tolerant, and he is no longer the self he used to be.
A sign that the better a person crosses is that he is not pleased. When you can do this, all the good will come as expected.
Two: Don’t force
. For a long time, if you give up now too unwilling.I know that there is a question on : Why do I work so hard, but I am not happy when I get it?
's highly praised answer is: because you tried too hard, you may get only one ten thousandth of what you paid, and you are too anxious about the result. Your efforts only satisfy your desires instead of fulfilling your wishes.
Some things are really not worth your effort to own,If you cannot escape from the vicious circle, you will only delay your life.
If one person crosses the better, it means that one can do it without force.
They understand that things that do not belong to them are useless no matter how high they jump.
If you can’t love someone, you must let go. How can the feelings that are forced to be happy?
In the lost moment, instead of immersing yourself in pain, it is better to adjust your mood in time and quickly devote yourself to the things you love. When this time passes, you will meet a more mature self.
Don't be too discouraged when you encounter difficulties. In fact, everything has two sides, it depends on how you face it.
When your ability is not worthy of your current ambitions, blindly demanding, forcing yourself to keep running, may not be able to live a better life.
On the contrary, those who know how to let go are the real winners.
They will focus their time and energy on the right things,And slowly settle, accumulate strength.
is not without desire and pursuit, but finding an open-minded outlook on life.
Try to do what you can do. As for the things that you cannot change or cannot get, you can accept them with confidence. Such people can usually lead a better life.
The ups and downs of life are just the norm. If you want to live a better life in the future, then try to do these two things.
If you don’t please, don’t force yourself, relax your heart and take things lightly, and happiness will come.
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