When you reach middle age, will you be surprised at some point: As you grow older, your mentality becomes more and more peaceful.
Once I met someone I didn’t like, I didn’t bother to say a word. Now, anyone who meets can talk cheerfully:
In the unit, the position that has been struggling for a long time became someone else’s, smiled and shook hands to congratulate, then Continue to work if nothing has happened;
Heartbroken people, but betrayed, a person tossed around in the middle of the night, the next day refreshed to go to work.
In front of people, they are always alive with joy, a look of peace and tranquility in the world.
Only oneself knows that it is not that there is no desire or desire, and feelings are dulled, but gradually gain insight into human nature, understand the truth, and be able to control one's emotions anytime and anywhere.
As there is a saying, the peace of middle-aged people is half understanding and half letting go.
Before becoming a middle-aged person, everyone has their own dream.
But under the guidance of the teacher in reality, this dream is getting more and more distant.
You gradually realize that not all efforts point to success.
Many times, if you try your best, there are things that you can't get, and some people seem to have everything if they don't do anything.
was wronged, misunderstood or even maliciously slandered, and wanted people who knew the truth to come out to prove innocence, but in the end, no one stood up and said something fair.
You finally understand that in this world, only children distinguish between good and bad, and adults only talk about pros and cons.
I once felt that everyone I met was friendly and kind, so I was kind to others and said something private.
Until one day, you heard someone add something to your back, laughing at you out of nothing.
Gradually, you learn to only say three minutes when you see people. Learned to distinguish who is worthy of deep friendship and who, the sooner you stay away, the better.
I used to be uncomfortable with the tackiness of only money in my eyes, but after repeated difficulties in lack of money, I gradually understand that many times,Human freedom and confidence are given by money.
I hit the south wall and hit the north wall. After falling through pit after pit, I finally understood that this world is not what I imagined.
Even if I try my best, I can't live the way my parents expect, and I can only be an ordinary person after my life is exhausted.
suddenly discovered that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, and fewer and fewer things worth suffering.
No longer have unrealistic fantasies, only stubborn, overcoming obstacles, living oneself into a beam of light, striving to cross the darkness and walk to the light of life.
is no longer the unscrupulous boy who just wants to rush forward. When people reach middle age, they gradually have scruples and worries in their hearts.
Elderly people go to the hospital more and more times, the cost of children's cram school is getting higher and higher, the mortgage must be paid back on time...The burden of life is hit from all directions.
It’s really easy to defeat a middle-aged person: a parent’s phone call, a company layoff, a child’s illness...
Whatever link goes wrong, you can be strong. Armor, raise your hand to surrender to life.
Therefore, when a person reaches middle age, no matter how capable he is, he will hide his edge and work hard, because he knows the responsibilities and responsibilities behind him.
As a result, we often see middle-aged people who are too strong to drink, fighting spirits at the wine table, and coveting them; in the
unit, the boss is flushed with scolding, and he still accompanies the smiling face and dare not refute;
in the dark night, Sitting in a corner of the street and crying alone, and then go home if nothing happened...
The moment I opened the door, the whole person changed his expression.
Middle-aged people know that a good life is hard to come by, knowing that life is alive, there are a lot of involuntary, but also a lot of helplessness.
So I learned to endure and give up, and when I knew it was time to give up, I had to give up, and no longer be arrogant, but deal with the problem rationally.
In this way, I slowly polished myself into a piece of jade, which is gentle but vigorous.
When people reach middle age, they start to give up on their own initiative.
Little half a lifetime passed,Those who should struggle have already struggled, and those who should have experienced have already experienced them.
Whether it is good or bad, they will eventually become valuable experience and wealth in their life journey.
There is no way to go in vain in life, every step has taught us something.
delete those unrealistic wishes and care about the health of yourself and your family;
push away those unnecessary meals, go home and cook a delicious home-cooked meal for your family;
no longer worry about emotions The gains and losses of the above, the people who have loved, gather and disperse, one is not two wide;
no longer hate those who have hurt yourself, not to forgive, but to let yourself go.
Putting down is transparent and open-minded.
I mended the fence and planted chrysanthemums in my heart, "Raising your hand is spring, and ending your hand is autumn"; in the dunya, live joyfully, "raising your hand to dry clothes, and to cut vegetables."
I am in a good or bad mood, gather around three or five confidantes, drink slightly drunk, guess the boxing and take orders, without any scruples.
I stay at home on the weekend, clean the windows, make a cup of tea, and watch soap operas on the sofa.
As for the unhappy things, open the window and let the wind blow away.
In middle age, people who are worried and fearless will have more peace and calmness; if they are responsible and have no extravagant hopes, they will naturally have more wisdom and tolerance.
May all middle-aged people who love life learn the true meaning of life between what they have and what they don’t, so that they can live more easily.
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