Middle age is a major turning point and dividing line in life. There is no frivolous flamboyance of youth, no light wind and wind of elders, most of which are the pressure of life and the involution of the workplace.
As the saying goes: "When the month passes fifteen, there are few bright spots, and people will rest in middle age." If a person reaches middle age and achieves nothing, it is difficult to do much. Time is not forgiving, and time is aging. If you don't want to waste your life, you must learn to settle in time in middle age.
1. Capital precipitation: bid farewell to the chic moonlight
Life is not so many poems and distances, on the contrary, there are many fragments and pieces. Most of the ups and downs in adult life are due to lack of money, whether it is a car, a house, a wife, or a child... In the final analysis, it is inseparable from the ticket holder.
If you are a bachelor, one person is full of food and the whole family is not hungry, then although you are chic and happy, spend money like the earth; if you are a freshman, it is natural for you to plan to eat, drink, live, and live with no more than three melons and two dates.
When you are over thirty, you have reached the age of starting a family and starting a business; when you are in your forties, there are old and small situations. No matter how reasonable your excuse is, if it is still a Moonlight Clan, if the primitive accumulation of capital has not been completed, then what is the point of "standing at thirty, without confusion at forty".
Money is the greatest confidence of an adult! When there is no money, there are compromises and helplessness everywhere, struggle and sadness everywhere. No matter how unhappy they are, they dare not leave their jobs easily; no matter how wronged they are, they can’t change jobs willfully; they’re tired and broke.You can only grit your teeth and insist... because you clearly know that people are the backbone of the family in middle age, and there is no one behind you.
Saying goodbye to the moonlight, working hard to make money, desperately worth money, is the most respectable middle-aged person.
2. Network precipitation: Say goodbye to invalid social interactions
People who reach middle age should stop doing invalid social interactions. Every night I sang songs and dances, skewered draft beer every day, in addition to harvesting a bunch of friends and friends, I also like to mention a middle-aged greasy suit. The so-called good for the rest of my life is basically in vain.
After 10 years and 20 years of network accumulation, as a mature middle-aged person, you should turn on the filtering mode. From a number of familiar and acquainted "friends", three or five are worthy of dealing with for a lifetime. As long as these connections are truly settled down, it will be enough for your life.
is worthless social networking, but it is a drain on your energy. There is a saying that goes well: "Your level is the average of the 5 people you have most contact with." What does it mean? It means: What kind of path will be taken by people who are close to you, after all. It will only urge you to play cards, and the alcoholic will only urge you to toast.
The greatest fortune in life is not picking up money or winning big prizes, but someone who can help you, encourage you, and guide you. true friends, can inspire your dreams, broaden your horizons, and make money and business together.
people to middle age,Your world doesn't need to be so crowded and noisy, settle your contacts in time, dare to leave your circle of friends, and leave time for like-minded people.
3. Skill precipitation: Say goodbye to mixed eating and death
About 35 years old, if you have not mixed with the management, if you have not become a technical backbone, then your career will be about to enter" Hard mode".
In terms of energy, you are not as good as young people. They are the main force working overtime and staying up all night;
On innovation, you are not as good as young people. Their brains are open and innovative, etc. Dare to go out of the circle;
In terms of salary, you are not as good as young people. They have less money and less willingness to endure hardships. A blank sheet of paper is good for painting...
People are middle-aged and you haven’t practiced yet. As far as one's own skills are concerned, how can one gain a foothold in this world if he doesn't have a skill? Is it all dependent on qualifications and reliance on the old to sell the old? You know, even public institutions don’t want to discuss seniority.
As an ordinary person, you must be soberly aware that strength is your biggest trump card! You must make breakthroughs in management and professionalism in your job position to improve your competitiveness in the workplace. If you are unwilling to accept this reality, there is only one result waiting for you: being eliminated by society and becoming a resentful and worthless person.
4. Emotional precipitation: Say goodbye to whatever you want
Everyone wants to be a lifetime child,But no one can never grow up. So put your emotions away and don't do whatever you want with children.
The workplace is not your mother, no one will be used to you! Your violent temper, your fragmented mouth, your mad personality... all converge. As a qualified adult, we cannot rely on our own temperament to become an unreasonable weirdness in the eyes of others.
People who reach middle age must learn to settle their emotions, learn to be silent, and learn to manage freely. No matter if you are speaking or doing things, you need to think about it, don't blurt it out, don't act arbitrarily, and would rather pause for ten seconds before reacting instead of acting rashly.
Being a reliable person and a stable emotional person is a compulsory course for adults. On the contrary, society will eventually teach you a lesson, and it will end in a disastrous defeat.
Accumulation of capital, will reap the right to choose life; Accumulation of connections, will reap the control over the future;
will reap the right to set prices for occupations; Precipitating emotions will gain the right to pass customs in a mixed society;
When you are young, you can fight for your body, drink, and circle... But when you are middle-aged, you will find that precipitation is the only way out.
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