Wen丨Xixiang Youqing
Time is not long, I hope you will see each other in my words!
Time flies, and many times we have rushed into the second half of our lives before we had time to seriously enjoy the peace and tranquility of life.
When I was young, I always felt that time went so slowly and slowly, and I always wanted to grow up as an adult faster. I want to see what the distant world looks like, I want to have absolute freedom and dominate my life.
At that time, we ran with all our strength in the sunset, with a paper airplane in our hand, trying to catch up with the falling sun...
But as we grew up, we realized that adults’ lives were not as good as we were before. Think.
The adults’ world is full of bitterness and fatigue. Every day, he runs into things that he doesn’t love, and pretends to live happily with a mask.
In order to survive in this society and to bring a better life to my lover, many times I have to swallow a lot of grievances and wipe down big tears.
In the busy day after day, we have been tireless, spinning like a top. One day, when I was looking in the mirror, I suddenly realized that I did not know when I had turned white.
At this time, our hearts were filled with emotion, as if we suddenly looked away, and found that we still couldn't catch up with the sun after all.
"Come to the world, we have to look at the moon, how the water flows, how the flowers bloom, how the ants move, and how the butterflies fly."
So, after so long, Having been oppressed by life for so long, our life is now halfway through, and we will live the second half well.
Ximei feels that if you can read these three sentences in the second half of your life, then your life will become carefree.
The first sentence: Forgive yourself some
Jay Chou There is a song " Daoxiang" in which there is such a lyrics:
can not chase the dream of " Not get it,Color your life brightly, first paint your love with the color you like. Let’s laugh, success and fame is not the purpose. To make ourselves happy is the meaning.”
Many times, we always blindly pursue some prosperity and wealth, but ignore the essence of life—seeking happiness.
We have listened too much to the demands of this society and too many people around us, but we rarely settle down to listen to our own voices.
Someone said, "Be a doctor." Well, it's very profitable to be a doctor"; some people say, "It's good to be a lawyer!" Being a lawyer is admired, and you are not afraid of being bullied.” Some people say, “Being a teacher, a teacher takes a vacation so long for a year and is respected by society...”
In the sound, you gradually forget that you originally wanted to be a painter. In this way, you are farther and farther away from your dreams, and you are even unhappy. You have to learn to please yourself, focus more on your own thoughts, and feel the simple happiness of life.
Believe in this way, you can understand: Life has always been simple, but people are complicated.
Remember, the person who knows you best in your life is yourself. If you can’t obey your own will and be more tolerant of yourself, then no one can let you. happy.
Second sentence: The body is the capital of the revolution
In the second half of life, you must know how to cherish your body. After all, the body is the capital of the revolution.
Even if you have more gold and silver jewelry, no health, it is equivalent to nothing.
If you don't know how to cherish your body on weekdays, then when you are old and lying on a hospital bed, what a heartbreaking thing to see when there is no one waiting in front of the bed.
Therefore, we must learn to strengthen exercise in peacetime to give ourselves a strong body. In this way, you will have the energy to appreciate the great rivers and mountains and see the flowers and plants.
There is such an example around me, it is an uncle in my hometown. When he was young, he worked day and night, completely neglecting his physical condition, and now he gets sick in middle age.
We went back to our hometown last year. He came to our house for dinner. He used to drink alcohol and became non-drinking. He said: "At my age, you will understand how important physical health is!"
Yes, If there is no healthy body, then everything is empty talk. Just like many regrettable stories on the Internet, if they practiced the phrase "the body is the capital of the revolution" earlier, they would not leave with regret.
Therefore, is still the old saying that life is nothing but life and death. In the second half of your life, you must pay attention to your physical health, so that you can live a carefree life in your old age.
The third sentence: Relieving you can make your life easier
Leslie Cheung There is a single "When love is a thing of the past",There is such a lyric:
"Don't mention the past, life has been windy and rainy. Even if the memory can't be erased, love and hate are still in my heart. I really want to break the past and let tomorrow continue."
Many times, people will be involuntarily immersed in the pain of the past, and people who are rooted in the past cannot live well in the present and the future.
If you want to live a carefree life in the second half of your life, then you must learn to let go, let go of the experiences that broke your heart, and erase the memories that made you cry.
There is no way to go back in life. In that case, what is there to be entangled and stubborn? Regarding the people and things of the past, don't ask any more, don't blame anymore.
Everyone will make some mistakes when they are young. This is the price of people's growth. If you keep stuck in the past, you will only waste the remaining time.
If you choose to forgive, you can have a new life and a new self. As people often say: "Life is a lot of unhappy, in fact, it is because people refuse to let themselves go."
So, you have to learn to let go, no matter what you have experienced, now you have stood in life. In the second half of the game, you have to move forward lightly so that you can have no worries.
Concluding remarks:
Time is cruel, it never waits for people, and always moves forward at a constant speed.
A person who knows how to cherish years, knows what he should do in different periods of time, and will never let the years go by.
When life has reached the second half of life, you should know how to give yourself more patience, cherish your body, and let go of the experiences that make you feel unhappy.
After all, half a lifetime of busyness has allowed you to experience the cruelty of society,The warmth of humanity.
And if you don't let go of some of the obsessions in your heart, you may never have the opportunity to experience the sweetness and happiness of life again.
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