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Hello everyone, I’m Feng Xun.
When having lunch, the colleague next door said: " used to like chicken soup, but now I only feel greasy and disgusting ."
said, she opened her circle of friends and pointed to one of them to show me: _span4sp1 _span4sp1 , No one appreciates, no one hurts, and I still work hard.
Although I know I have no money and no looks, I firmly believe that if I work harder, I will succeed.
during puberty,Many people like this kind of melancholic and literary sentences, as if everything in the world is sad.
This kind of "chicken soup" is like a cup of sweet soup, is sweet when you drink it, and a few more mouthfuls feel worthless and pure groaning.
Gradually, you will be distorted in our daily life.
Today’s article will lead you to take a look at the “poisonous chicken soup” that has a subtle influence on us?
We hope that we can look at daily life with an objective mind, keep rational thinking at all times, and truly live a happy and fulfilling life.
01. To have run
you rest when others are catching you
you must listen After this sentence: "During your coffee time,Others are catching up with you".
This sentence, the true meaning of is to tell us that we should cherish the time we should not waste and study hard, but we all "distort" it as:
4span1Don’t take a break, you must keep the pace of learning at all times to become better.
So you start to spend time, eat and read on the bus...
I can’t wait for a 48-hour sprint a day, and I feel that it’s a sin to not read a book for a second
In a few days, you collapsed, and you were stunned, and you can’t do anything.
At this time, compares with someone who has a rhythm and persists in learning. Waste.
Then,You think: " works harder than others who are better than me, and I don’t deserve to rest !"
When I was in high school, I also experienced similar situations:
_span4 blockpeople who are optimistic about their grades study, I am not willing to fall behind in reading, and even squeeze time to read during the lunch break for fear of falling behind.
I suffered from severe sleep deprivation for a period of time. Not only did I fail to improve my grades, but also broke my body, mental breakdown, and self-doubt.
As you experience more and discover, everyone’s pace of progress is different. Don’t force yourself to take the first place with high intensity.
Because, you never know the other party’s rhythm, learning ability, and whether it’s suitable for you , just like a messy rhythm, you will only learn to imitate yourself. I forgot my original rhythm.
slowly,I find my own rhythm, study when it is time to study, and rest when it is time to rest. According to the laws of nature, the body's biological clock will work and rest, the energy will be full, and the efficiency will be improved.
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We must also have our own small waves, small rhythms, and run with the times, don’t lose our own beats.
The world is so big, there is a sky outside the world, there are people outside the world, and there are always people you can’t compare with yourself, so follow your own rhythm and progress.
Life is a marathon. Don’t worry about how fast others run, and don’t care about who is where.
Just pay attention to yourself and keep the pace, because you have to remember that you are running for your life and everything is in time.
02. courage to do their own
do not stay in a fixed position on the status quo of
previous Year,There is a hot article on the Internet that blasts the Internet:
The man who sold the property in Beijing and went to open the inn in Dali is back.
With the rapid development of the times, the tight work intensity of makes every workplace worker who is fixed at his work station want to escape the city urgently.
Moreover, there are not many similar things, and even more and more people are yearning for a comfortable life after escape.
However, the life we yearn for, most people only see the brilliance on the surface of her, but ignore the huge cost behind her.
I remember that there was a friend around me who said that he usually got good grades after graduation. Into the civil service unit.
When everyone is very optimistic about him,Suddenly he spoke naked and said that he wanted to be himself. Starting from shooting a short video, the camera could not be used, the script could not be written, and he regretted it after only a few days of work.
The discerning person can see that he is not "being brave to be yourself", but "blindly confident".
In fact, many people are blind and confident, thinking that they are so awesome in the college entrance examination, and there is nothing in this world that can stump them.
thinks that with so many subjects in the college entrance examination, you can get high scores on your own, and what you want to do is not at your fingertips?
Jonathan Swift "Gulliver's Travels" says:
you can see the danger blindly.
indeed, nothing will blind, so you're like newborn calves, like, what dare to try
waiting for you Defeated and beaten badly,I realized that my blindness was so dangerous, and realized that my previous actions were so naive.
When you do not have enough ability and experience to do what you want to do, your "brave try" is just a pale slogan.
You have to know, every time makes a decision, what is the price that is clearly marked on the back?
You can fight bravely when you do things, but you can't blindly, and suffer dumb losses with a worthless passion.
Rather, when you are sure that you can actually go up one more gradient, try to get up instead of whimsical.
03. Only good enough
you can come across one in a million crush
encourage every There is nothing wrong with studying alone,But it's really too much to find someone who is good enough as an excuse.
At the right age, it doesn’t really matter whether you are good or not.
I believe that many people have the illusion that they did not find a target because they were not good enough.
I am definitely not good enough, so I didn't meet anyone who likes me.
wait until I am good enough to find the same good person, marry her and have children.
He is so good, I don’t deserve it! I want to be better, and confess when I am like him
but he obviously likes you, but because he can’t wait for you, he got her...
In a more and more rational era, love and marriage have not only stopped at the word "like".
will add more thinking standards,For example, is he a potential stock? Can I get married with my current salary?
Add "conditional" love, such as chained feet, each step is very difficult.
Feng Xun is married, and I feel deeply about this.
Occasionally, when you add a friend, you will leave a message to ask emotional questions. For example:
It’s so difficult to get married. I think my parents disagree. I agree. The lottery talks fell apart.
I don’t want to fall in love anymore, the uncertainty is too high, and the stocks are not so tired to fall in love
6p6 At the beginning, I was worried a lot when I was in love, but I bravely took the step of discussing marriage and found that getting married is actually not that difficult. regardless front
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I like Hayao Miyazaki " Spirited Away " said sentence How bitter the road is,As long as you go in the right direction, no matter how rugged, you are closer to happiness than standing still.
For the confusion of love and marriage, many people just stay in their own thoughts, try to "terrorize" yourself with other people's failure cases. Once you go through the process, how do you know if you have chosen the right one?
It’s hard to find someone, and it’s hard to get married. How hard is it to live?
But who is not living hard while pursuing the meaning of life?
Mo Yan once said: "To live alone in this world, to live for someone who likes yourself is the best attitude."
Don’t lose the motivation to find love because of difficulties. There is snow ahead. Stepping past is the scenery of Northland, which is very beautiful.
written at the end,Identify "poisonous chicken soup" rationally, stay awake at all times, learn to distinguish the authenticity, and make rational judgments.
Don’t be interrupted by anyone or anything, your ability to be positive, live hard, love yourself, love others.
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