The older you are, the more you are afraid of something. When you were young, everyone was full of vitality and energy. I am not afraid of anything, but when I get older, my body's function gradually declines, so my body can no longer keep up with my mind.
The big words and lofty ambitions that were once also slowly disappeared with the passage of time. The mentality has also gone from being angry for a long time for one thing to a lot of things now.
For the elderly, there are three things that are most feared now.
01. Fear of loneliness
When people get old, they all have a characteristic, that is, they are afraid of loneliness. I want to find a wife to spend the rest of my life with me.
When people get old, most of the young people are away all year round, and there is no time to accompany them. If they are not there, if there is only one person, then I am very lonely in my heart, and no one talks to myself every day, and I will feel very bored and depressed.
It’s better in the countryside, you can do something you can do, and you can usually chat with the neighbors around you, but the elderly in the city are different. Some people have many things because they are older. Can't do it.
02. Afraid to say
When people get old,They all hope that their descendants will be great for their ancestors, and they hope to hear others boast about their descendants and make themselves happy.
I am most afraid that when I am old, I will feel depressed if I am told that my offspring are not promising. Fear of others gossiping.
03. Fear of relaxation
It is often said that people are most afraid of being busy, and they are afraid of being idle. When people are busy, they don't think about other things, they are very energetic, and they have a strong momentum in everything they do.
Once a person is idle, he will not be able to find what to do, will be at a loss there, and will be very scared in his heart, so try to find something to do for yourself and don't let yourself idle.
Everyone will grow old, sick, and die. When facing life, we must have a good attitude and stay optimistic. Don't let yourself be too "free" when you are old, and ask yourself more. Only in this way can I be happy physically and mentally.
Today’s topic: What are you most afraid of? Are you lonely?
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