Everyone is born to want to be strong.
In fact, only a handful of people have become strong.
It is not easy to become a strong person, but you can observe some of the characteristics of the strong person, and then work hard to cultivate these characteristics.
Little by little, step by step, approach the strong, and slowly become a truly strong person.
Experience these seven laws and learn to think and act like a strong person.
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There is an inevitable reason for everything to happen.
In other words, when you see any phenomenon, you don't have to feel incomprehensible or strange.
Because everything happens for a reason.
There is a Chinese proverb:
"If someone wins something good, if someone else wins something bad, if someone else wins it, pbr0p _span0p _span0p5 Kindness and gratitude.
When it has difficulties, it is easy to get help from others.
On the contrary, if a person does something bad, others are likely to be malicious.
Even if you don't fall into trouble, no one can help.
In a nutshell: You get melons when you grow melons, you get beans when you grow beans, what causes you plant, and what results you get.
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On the contrary, if you are more anxious about the result, the less you can get the desired result, or even the opposite result.
For example:
The power goes out on a hot day at night, the more you worry about when the power comes, the more you turn over and over, the more you can’t sleep, and the more it won’t come.
And when you finally settle down slowly, no longer anxious, suddenly your room is brightly lit and the air conditioner is ready for use.
Sometimes, the more you ask, the less you get.
As a human being, don't always think about when certain things and certain results will be obtained.
In the process of constantly wanting to get, the deeper the obsession, the more anxious the mentality, the more bad things you will do.
Relax your mind and work hard to do what you need to do.
These things will come to you one by one.
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two-eight law _span5 _span5 pOnly 20% of the results can be obtained.
The other 80% of the results will be obtained in the next 20% of the time and effort.
This causes many people in the process of pursuing their goals and often lose confidence and give up because they fail to see obvious results.
As everyone knows, just stick to it.
After walking the last 20% of the way, you can get the remaining 80% results.
This is why, the number of successful people is always a small number, because there are very few people who can stick to the end.
Destiny building is a long-term thing.
Only if we have enough patience and confidence, firmly believe that what we do will be successful in the future, and be unwavering, can we get rid of the eighty-two curse.
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Only when you feel that what you are doing is worth it, will it be worth it.
has a classic line:
"A dish burns well,The raw material is not important, the seasoning is not important, and the heat is not important. The most important thing is the heart of the cook.
When you cook with a heart of "not worth it," bitterness is added to your dishes.
The emotion of "not worth it" spreads.
When we feel that a day is not worth living a good life, almost all of the days are not good.
In the end, what we gain may only be a "not worthy of life".
So we have to avoid the idea of "not worth it".
Use resources and time rationally to do what is worth doing well.
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36 Crab LawIf you only put one crab in the bamboo basket, you must cover it, otherwise it will crawl out.
because when a crab crawls to the mouth of the basket,The rest of the crabs will drag it down, and in this cycle, no crab can successfully crawl out.
This is the famous "Crab Law" :
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, Is to embarrass each other, not to see others good.
Sociologist Sun Liping once proposed a concept: the fall of the bottom.
"If you are at the bottom,It’s easy to fall into a mutual harm mode. Everyone stepped on me and I stepped on you. Because we spend a lot of energy on hurting each other, no energy to improve, no one can escape, and finally collectively fall into a kind of fall. "
That is to say, the lower the level, the more they like to tear each other apart.
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Really strong people know how to appreciate others, build bridges for each other, and fulfill others at the same time. Lost myself.
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_span _span _span _strongI always imagine that the leader can notice his talents and efforts.
But the reality is that the vast majority of newcomers sit in the corners and repeat the work of running errands over and over again.
Leaders will not pay much attention to you, and even occasionally receive groundless accusations and criticisms.
is placed in a dark corner and is not taken seriously. Like mushroom cultivation, it will be doused with dung, accepting all kinds of unprovoked criticisms and accusations, and being in the process of self-destruction for a long time. This phenomenon is called " mushroom law ".
Mushrooms grow in a dark land at the beginning. If you give up the hope of growing in the early stage, you can only be silent forever.
If we can grow up, we are not afraid of hardships and hardships, one day we can break through the darkness and see the light.
Everyone has to go through such a journey when they grow up. That period of fighting alone in the dark is the most difficult time.
likes a saying in the worry-free grocery store: "It's easy to give up, but it must be cool to stick to it."
If you get through it, you can get ahead; if you don't make it, you will be buried.
There is a story about a girl who is very inspirational.
This girl was just the front desk of the company.But her conscientious and down-to-earth performance at work has impressed many colleagues.
has a colleague who is going on a business trip, she will prepare the railway schedule in advance; Let’s cool off;
If the visiting customers have questions, she will help answer when the company’s customer service is busy... No complaints, and strive to achieve the ultimate in work.
Because of her excellent performance at the front desk, she was promoted to the head of the administration department more than a year later.
In the past few years in charge of the administration department, she led the team to put every task in place, and she did a very good job.
Later, the leader gave her more opportunities and let her flex its muscles.
Because of this, when the company expanded, she became a partner of the company and went all the way to the position of senior vice president.
This girl is called Tong Wenhong ,Now he is the Chief Human Resources Officer (CPO) of Alibaba Group and the chairman of Cainiao Network .
No matter how good the talents are, they start from the simplest things and grow up all the way.
Everyone has to go through a "mushroom period" in the growth process of life.
Before breaking out of the ground, the only thing you can do is not to give up, keep going, and do things to the extreme.
As long as you can endure loneliness, you will always have your own bright moment.
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Under normal circumstances, fleas can jump to a height of 400 times their own height.
If you put a glass cover on the flea at this time, the flea will hit the top of the glass cover.
After several consecutive times, the fleas lowered their jumping height, at most they only jumped to the top of the hood.
After continuing to lower the height of the glass cover,The jumping height of fleas will also get lower and lower.
At the end, after removing the glass cover, you will find that the fleas can no longer jump high.
This is the "flea law" .
"Flea Law" tells us a very simple truth: There is only one failure in life, and that is self-limitation.
In life, many people will choose to shrink when they encounter some difficulties, and some people like to stay in their comfort zone and dare not try and challenge the unknown.
will eventually become numb and dull like a "fleas".
Dong Qing once said: "The meaning of life is to open up rather than stick to it. No matter when we should not lose the courage to move forward."
Don't paint the dungeon as a prison at any age.
Although the process is full of pain, you will definitely meet a better self in the end.
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I have seen a very interesting analogy:
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The strong is like an eagle, leaving his figure in the sky, overlooking the earth, and using his powerful wings to welcome the storm of life.
May you learn to root down and grow up like the strong, embrace the larger world with a larger pattern.
strong 36 strong ups and downs, life, ever-changing There is always a rule to follow.
Follow the laws of nature, follow the laws of nature, be responsible to yourself, and nature will be responsible to you.
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