can live a peaceful life, which is probably everyone's wish.
After all, we are uneasy, and no matter how much we have, we will still only feel barren. When we are very stable, no matter what life gives us, we can often deal with it calmly, and we will not appear too desolate.
Everyone wants to live a little more secure, but the reality is often that many people are very uneasy.
is always full of confusion about tomorrow, and panic is often written in his eyes.
We always want to know how to live in peace with the world, until one day, when we are a certain age and have experienced a lot of things, we will eventually find that a sense of security does not arise out of thin air .
If we want to live with a sense of security, we have to do something, and we also need to have something.
Exercise more and have a healthy body.
When we are healthy and healthy, we may never feel how important it is to be healthy, but when one day we fall ill, even if it is just a minor operation, we will have no choice. Enjoy life well.
No matter what age, the body is always the most important thing. With health, we can go wherever we want, do something, do something, don't depend on anyone, just rely on ourselves.
Therefore, even if we are still very young, we must not take our health seriously, we must quit some bad habits as soon as possible, walk more often, do more exercise, and let ourselves have a good health as much as possible. body, and a good mental state.
When we are healthy, even if we are only ordinary, at least we can eat, wear, and make money by ourselves. This seemingly ordinary life can give us at least dignity .
and dignity, no matter what time it is, and are the most basic source of a person's sense of security.
Otherwise, when you can't take care of yourself in life, you have no physical strength to do anything at all. In those years, and will only be bad after all.
have earning skills , enough money in the card.
Modern people are always prone to anxiety , and the source of anxiety is mostly because of lack of money. Because
doesn't have enough money, even if he doesn't like his current job, he doesn't dare to quit his job because he doesn't have a steady stream of income. Even if he seems to have a lot, he still feels uneasy.
Originally, when we don't know where the rent for next month is, and it is difficult to maintain our living expenses, even if the current life seems to be much better than many people, we are still worried about tomorrow.
wants to change this status quo, what we have now is very important, and more importantly, no matter what happens, we can have the ability to make life better while maintaining the status quo.
This requires us to always have a skill, and we also need to have enough savings to be able to resist emergencies.
has skills, no matter what happens, we can make money, we don’t have to worry about losing what we have now, and we don’t know where to go tomorrow, we have a lot of money, we don’t have to worry about lack of money when we need it , has no ability to contend with life.
Love yourself and be loved by others.
Speaking of, living in this world, we are always just ourselves, and we will also desire to have some intimacy with some people. It doesn't take much, even if there is only one person, who deeply loves the original us.
To love and to be loved is a very important thing for everyone.
In life, we have to love others, but at the same time, we must always love ourselves.
To love someone well, find a good lover, a sincere relationship will make us feel the kindness of the world, and feel that we are not alone, but a very happy and lucky person.
It's just that I always want to gain a sense of security through others, and I don't know how to love myself. After all, it is a very unreliable thing. After all, people's hearts are changeable. Or change your mind at any time.
And when we know that we love ourselves, accept ourselves, recognize ourselves, have a clearer understanding of ourselves, and know how to fulfill ourselves and live independently, then no matter who leaves, we can still be fine .
The fundamental source of security is a healthy life, endless money and hope, and the truest love.
When a person is healthy and rich, loves himself and is loved, the future can be expected, and life will naturally not be too bad.
Therefore, if we want to live with a sense of security, we should not always think or let ourselves be in bad moods, but take action and move forward according to our goals.
Although it is said that life is never easy, but when we are always on the road and set out towards our goals, even if we have a long way to go, one day, we will gradually become what we want.
The sense of security comes partly from others, and more from myself.
We must do it all the time, so that we can empower ourselves.