1. Proving to others that you are a good person is equivalent to automatically laying down your arms and letting others be slaughtered.
2. Lending money to others is likely to cultivate enemies.
3. When someone suddenly disappears from your life, don't ask why, it's just that it's time for him to go, you just have to accept it. The so-called maturity, is to know that some things are powerless after all.
4. Recognize yourself and know how much you weigh. Some occasions are not for you to exercise. Remember the saying, no diamonds, no porcelain. We have to recognize ourselves and the reality of many things. Only in this way can we not fall too hard.
5. Don't criticize others' beliefs, idols, and dreams at will.
Beliefs, idols, and dreams are a person's spiritual pillar, and no one wants you to hurt them. Sometimes the basis of living in harmony with others is that we respect each other's preferences and idols. Even if we don't like what others like in our hearts, we shouldn't show it outright.
6. Whether you receive an email, SMS or WeChat message, please reply. When someone asks you to chat, if you are busy or don’t want to chat, you can tell the other person that something is wrong; if you don’t reply after a long time, you can say sorry first, and then have a good chat… Don’t go to the circle of friends without replying to the message. Receiving a reply is a kind of respect and a manifestation of character.
7. You can evaluate one thing at will, but don't arbitrarily evaluate a person or thing. We have the right to evaluate, but we must be cautious about people. No one likes people who talk about others behind their backs.
8. The more experienced people are, the more indifferent they are. Because he no longer has the energy to please anyone, he will be nice to anyone who is nice to him, but he doesn't want to maintain any relationship that makes him feel a little tired. It's not that I don't have the ability to get along with people, but I don't have the interest to play with people.
9. Don't be too generous. There are only "stupid and generous" and "poor and generous" in this world. Have you heard of "rich and generous"? The poor are cautious and generous, while the rich are generous and stingy. People who like to rush to pay are not very wealthy people.
10. If you earn a lot of money and have a strong ability to earn money, others will look at you with admiration and look up to you. If you have poor earning ability, others will look down on you, even your relatives will look down on you. Especially men, to work hard and earn money, must have money! Once you have money, you can afford to marry a daughter-in-law, support your family, and live a good life. The outbreak of many family conflicts is related to money.
11. The biggest mistake I made was that I thought it would be easier to go down, but it was actually easier to go up. Because high-level people have a clearer mind and act rationally, many people in small places can’t turn their heads around. If you quarrel with them every day, your time and energy will be wasted on it.
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