Hold on, you win

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When a friend was gathering, someone said: "The person who hurt you is actually the person who came to cross you."

Someone retorted: "If this is the case, then I will make you a scarred person, would you like to? ?"

Yeah, everything has two sides. When a person is hurt, he can choose to take revenge, or he can choose to be grateful.

Life always has to go through a lot of things before you can really grow up. If the experience of life defeats a person, then the "experience" becomes a harm.

In fact, if a person is not defeated by real life, then all injuries will become an intangible wealth, and all pains will lead to a better self.

can not defeat your people and things, it will make you stronger. The way you carry your weight forward is really beautiful.

People in this life, no matter what they have experienced, if you hold on to it, you will win.

People who can handle things are often "talented". has carried everything, not only "deadly", but subtly turning pain into motivation, and turning corruption into magic.

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can carry all the "troubles", and you can store energy quietly.

There are troubles every day, and if you don't pick them up, you won't. In life, there are troubles every day. When you take care of your troubles, you will live easier. In this world, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, only those who cannot find the way.

Colleague Xiao Li received a "breakup letter" from his girlfriend yesterday. He was heartbroken and thought he was so unlucky. Xiao Li has been in love twice, and each of them took more than three years. Every time he broke up, his girlfriend dumped him.

spent a lot of energy, but in the end I was still alone. After Xiao Li got off work, he went straight to the bar, ready to get himself drunk.

Colleague Lao Li grabbed Xiao Li's hand and said, "We are all surnamed Li, so you also give me a little face. Isn't it just lovelorn? As for hurting yourself? If you are not good, even if you are married, You will also get divorced. Others dumped you, which proves that others have no vision and do not see the outstanding you in the future. He decided to drive home, eat well, and sleep well.

Love and hate is the most annoying thing, but we all go through it. If you want someone to love you, then just be good instead of living in trouble.

In troubles, being able to find a quiet person is not only strong in heart, able to handle things, but also infinite in wisdom, who can see the world through.

No matter what is going on in your life, be quiet, read a book, and think about life. Instead of complaining about life, it's better to keep quiet.

You have to believe that all the winners in life are "accumulation", you can't even be quiet, how can you succeed?

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bear all the "pain", you can enjoy the blessings later.

Since ancient times, good and bad things have come together.

A wise person sees a sign of good fortune when disaster strikes; sees the fact that times turn around in the trough of life; and finds a way out of desperation when grief-stricken.

Look at the problem from a different angle and thinking, and you will find that all problems are very simple.

When I was in elementary school, I was often bullied because of my short stature. One day, several classmates laughed at me and patted my head with their hands. I was angry, but I couldn't resist, I could only cry.

I walked into Teacher Wang's office crying. Teacher Wang asked about the situation, and then said: "They laugh at you, that is your blessing.When I was young, my grades were poor, and my relatives laughed at me every New Year. So, I study hard so that all my relatives dare not laugh at me. do you know? After three years of hard work, I really got the first place in the class, and I was really proud of myself. "

Later, no matter who laughs at me, I don't cry anymore, I just look down and read. When I was in the sixth grade of elementary school, I was admitted to the top ten in my class. Those who laughed at me suddenly became Be quiet, they pass by me and feel very small.

The pain in your heart is caused by others, but also by yourself. The pain is because your ability to bear is too weak, that's all.

The reason why you live in misery is because you are not strong enough, you cannot bear all the grievances, you cannot face the flaws in life, and you cannot resist others. The things that make you painful are actually things that test you. After experiencing the most painful things in your life, you will find that all the pain in the rest of your life is not worth mentioning. Compared with happiness, pain is really nothing. What.

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Can withstand all the "pressure", you can "move forward".

Why can people survive the trough? Not because of "going with the flow", but because pressure has become motivation. ", that is to tell us that life is in the deepest trough, no matter which direction you go, it is uphill.

You are always escaping life, then you are destined to have a bumpy life; if you bear the pressure, you can be like a spring breeze.

You have to believe that as cold as winter is, spring is as warm as it is. The heavy snow is not for hurting anyone, but for the good harvest in the coming year, as the so-called "a year of auspicious snow".

You can cry when you can't carry it, but you have to run while crying, don't stop.

When you can't handle it, you can complain, but don't complain all the time, release the pressure in your heart, and then clean up the mess in your life and continue to struggle.

Horses who walk fast are often beaten by whips; people who walk silently are often people who have suffered greatly;

hold on, you win. Win in the mentality, win in the point of view of people and things.

Life is like a river. The closer you are to the middle of the river, the more turbulent the waves will be. Don't be afraid, keep moving forward, and then you can stir up the waves; dare to challenge yourself, you can reach the other side.

"Infinite scenery is on the perilous peak", people who can carry things, step on the pain and put the scenery in their hearts.

Only those who can handle things have the wisdom to grasp their destiny.

Author: commoner rough food.

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