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Around December 10th, I decided to give it a try and relax myself. Unexpectedly, within two days, due to the unpredictable situation, the mentality collapsed: scolded him for letting go unprepared, scolded him for having a fever, scolded myrrh, scolded experts...
sprayed with anger and wrote down with righteous indignation, as if the problem was solved after the scolding.
When someone leaves a comment and likes it, I always feel that I have done a good job of scolding and speaking out for people, but in fact I just happened to be in conflict with public anger.
Regarding this kind of negative energy, I felt a little inappropriate after writing it. has no positive effect except making people more angry, and it does not help solve the problem .
Today I was still preparing to attack the phrase "It's not that I don't want to take care of it, it's that I can't control it anymore" - saying "I don't want to take care of it" is such an irresponsible reason and has caused such serious consequences.
But after repeated consideration, I gave up such an idea, and instead adopted a positive attitude and perspective to wait for the development of things.
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I put down all the so-called self-media articles on my phone that were negative, hateful, and revealing, and went out to try my best to relax my emotions.
On the street, there were obviously more cars and people passing in an orderly manner; the vendors shouted hard in the cold wind and enthusiastically praised the fruits and vegetables in front of their stalls.
When I bought a whole Chinese cabbage for 3 yuan, when the vegetable farmer put the vegetables into a bag with a smile and handed it over with cold, rough, and chapped hands, when he listened to the payment prompt and coughed a few times to say thank you, I suddenly felt that my complaints in the past few days were made out of a molehill.
A small three-year-old wheel can hold at most 50 vegetables, and it costs less than 200 yuan to hold on for a day. He works so hard, but is so optimistic - I paid two yuan more just to get back the peace of mind I had lost.
Here is not about praising suffering and resignedness, but about changing a positive attitude to face things that cannot be changed.
When I got home, the TV was showing people carefully rehearsing for the Spring Festival Gala. When I scrolled through Moments, those groaning words were gone. Instead, my friends were so enthusiastic that they went out for a winter outing while not working!
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I cleared my throat, feeling like I was coming out of the sadness of the past few days.
After a "yang" torture, I began to firmly believe in the correctness of supporting the open policy in the first place - I respect what people call the clearing faction and the lying-down faction, and even call the latter a lying bandit. It has nothing to do with right or wrong, just because my personal starting point is different.
If I have to criticize a few more words, it is that before the release, I was indeed too optimistic and failed to prepare, so that there was a crusade within a few days of the release.
However, after the labor pain is over, it will be another scene . The current arrangement of
may not be the best method and result, but it must be the most appropriate after comprehensive research and judgment. If we continue to insist on control, people will continue to fight for relaxation, because the wallets of most ordinary people can no longer support it; those things that have been delayed due to control have long been unbearable...
It's just that the gap between the suffering of Yang Shi and the popular science of experts is too large, making it difficult for people to accept it when they experience it.
never speaks, but silently gives answers. From now on, I will restrain my emotions and stop scolding, and love life well!
The only thing that makes people feel the most uncomfortable is those who have had their precious lives taken away in these days... But, ah, but, how can it be so easy for the perpetrators and the recipients...
