1. Do good deeds just do good deeds. Don’t pay attention to whether others have seen it, whether others will give you good comments, and don’t pay attention to what you can get after doing good deeds. Eliminate these distractions and do it.
2. Do whatever you should do at the corresponding time. Never give yourself extra time to think, hesitate, and make choices. Just do the plan that has been determined in advance and do it step by step, and don’t do other unnecessary actions.
3. When you get along with two people, you don’t have to keep remembering how much you have paid or how much you have sacrificed. Let go of these thoughts, the more you pay attention to, the heavier the burden in your heart. Just be at peace, be at peace, be at peace, be at peace, be at peace, are other things more important?
4. Don’t comment on others in your spare time. If you don’t understand the whole picture, don’t take it out of context. If you understand the specific situation, don’t make a big splash. Don't have fun with others, don't worry about other people's affairs. Cultivate more and cultivate your mind more.
5. What you have decided is to be sure. Don’t overturn it repeatedly in the middle, giving yourself a reason to retreat. Don't be suspicious, don't sway. Since you have made a decision, please feel at ease and do it seriously.
6. As for other people’s housework, as an outsider, no matter how thorough you see and understand the truth, don’t directly interfere in other people’s housework. Every family has a difficult sutra to recite. Don’t let your appearance make other people’s sutras more difficult to recite.
7. If the problem is exposed, don’t refute and quibble as soon as possible. You must admit your mistake as soon as possible. Look at your heart as soon as possible. The sooner the better, the faster the better, and take practical actions to solve it. The problem can be solved most effectively in the end, and this is the fundamental reason.
8. Pay attention to your posture in daily life, sit and stand. Don't shake your legs, don't cross your legs, don't look around, don't sit on the sofa. Pay attention to adjusting your posture, and you will find that your spirit is completely different.
9. Control your desire to express yourself. When you see others make mistakes, don’t open your mouth and say others are wrong. When you see others embarrassed, don’t stand aside and laugh at others. Don’t gloat when you see others’ sadness. Do you know how ugly your heart is at this time?
10. It is better not to smile than to smile, and it is better not to do false behavior. Fake things are fake, but fake things cannot be real. No matter how well it is concealed or packaged, it is still fake. How stupid it would be to think that false is true.
11. Just express your words clearly. Don’t keep talking nonsense, and don’t keep stressing them repeatedly. Express it clearly, accurately, highlight key points, and cover it comprehensively. Don’t be arbitrarily mixed with subjective opinions and emotions.
