Wang Xiaobo said: "Living in this world, first of all, you must be a good person, and secondly, don't spoil others' bad habits."
I will not offend others if I don't offend me. If a person violates me, I will offend others. Otherwise, when he infringes on your interests, you choose to give in, let him get the benefits he wants, and tastes the sweetness, he will leave the impression that you are easy to bully. Moreover, greed is human nature. Human desires will only continue to expand and will not be easily satisfied.
Once he takes advantage of you more times, he will not take you seriously. Later, when he asks for it, he will not think about it, thinking that this is what you should give him. It is right for you to give it to him. If you don’t give it to him, it will become wrong. He will only hate you and blame you, and will only force you to submit further. He will never understand you, nor will he reflect on himself.
Xi Rui said: "If we don't tear a bastard, we are creating a bastard, admitting a bastard, and cultivating a bastard. Those who break up with each other may not appear in your life at all."
Get along with people, behave properly. If the other party treats you well, treats you sincerely, or knows how to stop at the right time, and gives him face and he knows to give in, then you can treat him well, and be sincere in exchange for sincerity. However, if your sincerity is exchanged for being more and more arrogant and shameless, then don’t give him a face and tear him up as soon as possible!
For you, sooner or later, you will have to endure those who can’t take advantage of the opportunity and roll your eyes and slander you if you can’t take advantage of it. Sooner or later, you will have to tear him up. It’s better to get up early and have a breakup earlier, and you can minimize the loss of your own interests as much as possible.
If you fight too late, he will really feel that you owe him some great debts and will never pay them back in your life. What's more, your ideas can even hit your family.
Ye Rui met such a relative. This relative was no one else, but his uncle's family of three.
"It's all my father's fault. He spoiled his uncle's family and let them ate them all their lives. My father left. Not only did his uncle's family not feel sad, but he was worried that the money tree would be gone. He put his ideas on me and wanted me to continue to be a money tree for them. Really, I really feel unimaginable that there are such shameless people in the world, and it's my uncle and cousin."
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4 months ago, Ye Rui's 58-year-old father suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and was unable to be rescued. He died. Ye Rui, who received a call from his mother at work, immediately asked for leave and rushed back with his wife.
When Ye Rui arrived, his father was almost unable to hold on, and his mother was the only one who stayed by his father's side. His mother told Ye Rui that his father had an illness at home, and it was eleven o'clock in the middle of the night.
"My parents live in the town. If they call an ambulance, they are often slower. My uncle's family also lives in the town. From their house to my house, it takes only ten minutes to walk. My uncle has a car. When my cousin was admitted to college, my father wanted to give him a reward. The three of them both pestered my father for a long time. My father ignored my mother's objection and bought tens of thousands of dollars for his nephew as a reward."
Therefore, Ye Rui's mother thought of the first thing she thought of was to call her brother-in-law, hoping that her brother-in-law would drive her husband to the hospital. However, after receiving the call, he said that they were asleep and could not get up. He asked Ye Rui's mother to call an ambulance and then hung up. During the ambulances such as
, Ye Rui's mother was anxious and worried that it was too late, so she called her brother-in-law again, hoping that they could help. Even if there was an ambulance, a man was helping by the side, which was better than just her and a woman.
However, the uncle answered, ignoring the anxious mood of his sister-in-law at all. On the contrary, there were many disrespectful words in his words and hung up the phone again. Ye Rui's mother had no choice but to wait for the ambulance to arrive.
Although the uncle may not be able to save his father's life if he helps, at this moment of crisis, as a younger brother, his uncle's indifference is really heartbreaking.
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Whenever he mentioned his uncle, Ye Rui became angry and decided that he was an ungrateful wolf. When his father was alive, he was not very good to this younger brother.
"My grandparents have four children. My father is the eldest, and there are two aunts below. The uncle is the youngest. The grandparents are conservative and think that their daughter is an outsider. They only care about their sons and not their daughters since childhood. After the two aunts got married, they rarely had contact with their parents' homes. As the youngest son, the uncle is most favored by grandparents, especially my grandmothers."
The elder brother is like a father. These four words carry forward Ye Rui's father's life. Although when Ye Rui's grandparents passed away, the uncle had already grown up and had his own children. When his grandmother left, he forced his eldest son to swear that he would take good care of his younger brother and not let his family suffer any hardship.
Ye Rui's father also did it, taking care of his younger brother in every detail, and letting his younger brother's family come to his house for dinner during festivals and holidays. He took away his nephew's school and work problems by himself. He tried his best to solve the problem of his younger brother borrowed money, but never refused. He did not mention repaying the money after borrowing. Ye Rui's father did not urge him, and he would never allow his wife to urge him.
And how did the uncle treat Ye Rui’s father? Ye Rui didn't know how much money he borrowed, but he had never paid it back anyway.
When my brother was critically ill, my sister-in-law asked for help, thinking it was too late to delay rest and did not help. What was even more outrageous is that when handling the funeral, Ye Rui and her mother were immersed in grief. While crying loudly, they ran around and helped entertain their relatives, and then embezzled all the gifts given by those people.
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Ye Rui was very angry and wanted to go to his uncle to argue, but his mother adhered to the principle that it was better to have less than more things and persuaded her son to forget it. Ye Rui had no choice but to go home.
After the wife found out, she complained about her mother-in-law's behavior of calming down: "Your uncle's family's confidence in getting more and more greedy is actually not only related to your father, but also to your mother. If your mother has a tough temper and dares to quarrel with your father, even if she doesn't chew on her brother-in-law, they won't be so shameless. Look, this matter is not over. Your uncle is used to chewing on your father, and you are used to lying on your father. Once you encounter something you can't handle, your father will not be so shameless. I can't make any idea, and I might hit you."
My wife's words come true and she is very prepared for human nature. Not long ago, Ye Rui's mother called Ye Rui and told him that her uncle found her, with the purpose of borrowing money, saying that Ye Rui's cousin found a partner. The woman wanted to buy a house in the provincial capital, but they couldn't take it out and wanted to borrow 200,000 yuan. She also said that Ye Rui's father had promised a long time ago that as long as his nephew found a partner, he would definitely help pay for the house to give the gift.
Ye Rui comforted his mother and rushed home. Seeing that his nephew was back, his uncle and his family didn't think there was any problem, but instead pulled Ye Rui and asked Ye Rui to get the money: "Your father is the eldest son, you are also the eldest grandson. Your father is gone, and my cousin can only rely on you. You can't watch your grandparents' grandson and your father's nephew can't marry a wife! After you die, what's the face of going to see your grandparents and your father?"
Ye Rui's mother was very anxious after hearing this and wanted to reason with them. Her daughter-in-law grabbed her and told her mother-in-law to be calm.
Ye Rui had already made up his mind and said, "It's easy to say, but I can't get such a large amount of money for a while. Give me ten days to come to me again." He sent off his uncle's family and shouted, "Mom, sell the house, leave."
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Ye Rui decisively asked his mother to take out the real estate certificate, quit the house, and sell the house so that the uncle and his family could not target him. Then, he quickly packed up his things and took his mother to his house.
Wait until my uncle's family reacted and looked for Ye Rui. Ye Rui directly blocked the one-stop service: "Fortunately, I didn't tell them where my home is. They only know my mobile phone number. This mobile phone number is optional for me. If you cancel it, you won't have much impact. If you harass me, I will cancel my mobile phone number. I think they can do what they can do with me."
Ye Rui told his mother that it is useless to reason with a bastard like uncle, and it is useless to play the emotional card. The best way is to just cut it off with one knife, so that they will never get any benefits again. There is no difference between such relatives and no.
There is a saying on the Internet: "The feelings between people must be mutual. If you don't care about rewards, you will only cultivate a ungrateful wolf."
You can't be polite when dealing with bastards, otherwise you will become a soft persimmon that they can control at will.
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