Do you have a feeling that in life, we are often emotionally out of control by someone or something, and even at a loss. People who have this kind of behavior often have their inner world not strong enough, and are easily controlled by emotions. They place all their happiness and happiness on others. In the end, they can only leave a bamboo basket and get nothing, and they can't find a reason to be happy.
We want to be strong people in life, not to compare strength with others, nor to wealth, but to be stronger than the inner self. When a person’s heart is strong enough, the temperament and tolerance he shows are incomparable to no one. Strong inner self is an invisible power, which often determines a person’s height and achieves a person’s unique charm.
Two days ago, I read this story in the book. When an old Zen master was preaching to a monk, he talked about riding a horse and riding a donkey. The Zen master said that there was a donkey riding and a group of people riding horses on the street. The people riding horses looked tall and noble, either rich or noble, and the person riding a donkey looked poor at first glance. The Zen master asked these little monks, who would live happier lives or donkeys?
The little monks all answered at the same time, of course, the riders were happy. But who would have thought that this donkey riding man hummed songs every day and was extremely happy, while those riding horses would live every day, running around and working hard, and there was no happiness at all. The Zen master explained that although the donkey riders were poor, he knew that there were many people who didn’t even ride donkeys. He knew that there was no need to compare them with those riding horses. People who rode horses wanted to ride on horses, and those who rode horses wanted to ride on horses. People had endless desires and worries would continue to flow into their small hearts. Only those who rode donkeys were strong in their hearts and did not compare with anyone, and lived their own life well. Other things had nothing to do with him, so naturally there was no need to think too much. Happiness and happiness came here.
It is not a matter of one or two days to make our hearts stronger. Many people may have to experience great disasters and heartbreaking pain before they can understand the secrets slightly. They need to constantly cultivate their minds and cure their hearts after the day they are acquired to make their hearts stronger. Each of us can make ourselves stronger, as long as you are willing to try to train yourself.
To make your heart stronger, you must let go of your own persistence. You don’t need to care too much about those irrelevant interests and feelings outside of yourself, let go of everything you should let go, and even have to be too nostalgic for your own skin. You can even take life and death lightly. There is nothing to do in life. You can easily make yourself emotional, and your inner strength will slowly form.
Follow the circumstances and pass with the circumstances. You don’t have to be too nostalgic about everything outside of your body, nor do you have to be too obsessed with it. You should cherish what God has arranged for you. If God doesn’t give you, you don’t have to force it. You should live a life like what God is in. If you can work hard, you should do your best. If you can do your best to do what you cannot change, just follow the circumstances and let it go naturally. If you can figure out these problems and truly use them to guide your thoughts, everything will get better.
The inner strength of the heart is inseparable from the people who guide you. Just like those practitioners, you need a master as your guide. You also need a few good teachers and friends on the road of life. Everything depends on your own efforts and the help of others. When you encounter problems and difficulties, when you are helpless and at a loss, these good teachers and friends are the best you can do, make good friends, cultivate a strong heart, and live a happy life path.
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