If the water is full, it will overflow, and if the moon is full, it will lose.
As a human being, you should avoid being full and need to leave blank space. We can all recognize this principle, but we must also see the other side of the matter and cannot generalize it.
The empty and full state is more about the change of mind and the control of material desires. If you "throw away" everything in life and blindly do "save away" things, you may experience shortage of materials and difficulties in life.
As an ordinary person, after half of his life after he was fifty years old, he also had some savings at this time and his family situation stabilized. But don’t be idle, you have to continue to work hard to lay a solid foundation for the second half of your life.
You must understand that after half a lifetime, the more you are, the more blessed you are.
01
Happy couples can be old.
We habitually call our husbands "the pillars" and our wife "the good wife".
Think about it, if there is no man at home, you can’t stand the blue sky. Without women, the pillars will easily collapse.
A pillar cannot exist alone. There are several walls below, covered with tiles, and a good environment must be provided. It cannot withstand long-term wind, sun and rain.
reality surprised us. Many couples can’t hold on to the next days after half of their lives. Although they have not parted ways, they have cracks and cannot enjoy the rest of their lives together.
There is a question on Zhihu : When was there a moment when I was completely disappointed and heartbroken with my wife?
Some people say that they often work overtime until very late. When they get home, they don’t hear their wife asking about their well-being. Instead, they sarcastically said that they are incompetent in their work and can only do this.
Some people say that they try their best to save a "New Year's money" for their children. When the family is in trouble, I have to take out the money for emergency treatment, but my wife replied that the money was given to my parents-in-law for custody.
Unfortunate families have their own misfortunes. If you want to nag, you may not be able to finish it in a few days. But I suggest you, don’t nag, learn to repair the relationship.
The broken window effect tells us that if a window is broken and not repaired, many windows and doors will be dilapidated, causing the entire building to become a dangerous building.
How can you say about feelings? There are 100% no cracks? At least there will be noisy.
In the second half of our life, we no longer worry about money, so we actively repair our relationship. As long as the couple is united, they will have a lot of fun in the future, travel, housekeeping and grandchildren.
Repairing feelings is: "Make your lover satisfied. Give yourself moderately." Being wronged between husband and wife is a blessing, but if you refute each other, it is a disaster.
02
Life is full and you can retire.
career will not be 100% satisfied, that is, you will still feel that there are many things that you don’t have time to do.
" Forrest Gump " says: "Just like the sun is reflected on the estuary before setting, there are countless bright spots shining."
After half of our life, we enter the sunset. At this moment, you need a word - a successful conclusion. If you think this word is not suitable for ordinary people, you can use it - to complete the work successfully.
Life seems to be very long, but in fact it is composed of "one paragraph, another paragraph". Each paragraph has to be completed, just like writing an article.
career has reached a certain level, and you have to settle down. In the future, you must take a step back and have a good rest.
For a while, the retirement of Dou Xiankang, the principal of Wuhan University, attracted everyone's attention. When he left school, the students sang "Farewell", presented flowers and sent blessings.
When he took office, he said, "What I bring today is only a sincerity, a determination, and a belief in hard work."
When he retired, he replied to the students with two lyrics: "Tomorrow I will leave, familiar places and you."
People live, don't regret me for doing nothing, and don't live in a daze. has a clear conscience. This is the best attitude in the workplace and has also brought a perfect end to the career in the workplace.
When we were young, we saw meteors and before we could make a wish, the meteors crossed the sky; now we have not retired, so we can give ourselves expectations for our career, stand in the last ten years, and maintain a positive attitude, just be fine.
03
The old house is full of spring and can return to its roots.
Lu Xun wrote in " Hometown ": "The broken stems of many dead grass on the corrugated corrugated are shaking when the wind shows that this old house is inevitable to change ownership. The family of several houses has probably moved away, so it is very quiet."
How to live in his later years? You should think carefully and find a way back.
According to tradition, we should return to our roots. Therefore, if possible, try to repair your old house and give it a "second spring" to the old house.
Maybe you have rebuilt the house in your hometown, then you should go back and take a look often, remove weeds and sweep away the dust.
Returning to the old house in the countryside, you will definitely feel what spring is full of spring and spring returns to the earth.
Picking flowers, ordering beans, planting grass, and managing vegetable fields can always give you too many beauty, allowing you to recall every bit of your childhood.
As a person who cannot return to his hometown to retire, don’t regret it. He should have his own “old nest”.
You have to take root in one place so that your rest of your life will be safe. No matter how well your children are doing, it is better to live in your own home. How far you walk, how big the city you go, how many scenery you see, you will eventually come back.
Turn your house into the shape of spring. Every day in the future will be full of vitality and make your heart youthful.
people, just because they are afraid of living in a decadent place, everything they see is gray.
04
Of course, full is more of a pursuit, which makes people live uphill, and insists on inner perfection, less regrets, rather than stuffing everything.
Just like the cricket in "Insects": "It never complains or is pessimistic. It has always been optimistic and positive. It is quite satisfied and pleased with the house it owns and its simple violin ."
There are many definitions of happiness, including big directions and small details. No matter what, the root of our happiness lies in home.
House and wife love each other, harmonious family; work goes smoothly, wealthy family; living in the same place, peace of family.
Therefore, we have to spend half of our life building a decent home, and then half of our life to feel the perfection of our family.
Time flies to make people grow old, and there are fireworks at home to warm people's hearts.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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