Lend me 10 years ago, I was 29 years old 10 years ago. If I had understood these 3 things, my life would have been much happier than now.
1, spend your precious time nourishing yourself.
10 years ago, I had no goals in my life, I felt illusory inside, and at the same time I had infinite longing for the world.
The good girl with appearance is actually full of infinite yearning for this world, but her cognition and ability are limited, and she can only turn around in the inner world.
I couldn't do the right thing in the right way at that time.
What stood in front of me at that time was the pursuit of myself, not clear enough.
so I can't find myself and rush around in the adult world. Don’t know how to protect yourself, nor do you know how to improve yourself.
Later I understood the saying, it is God who changes oneself, and it is a lunatic who changes others.
People who have not found themselves will not be happy. How can you be happy if you can’t be your own!
2 After staying away from invalid social
html more than 0 years later, I suffered repeated critical hits from life and realized that having a few friends around me was enough. If someone can provide material support and emotional comfort, then you will be lucky.The dinner parties back then were filled with wine, but now there is no trace of the news. The people coming and going have long disappeared.
The best thing that stays by your side is, and not so many people hope you will have a good life.
3 Make yourself better is the key to solving all problems
Back to the mountains and downs, rely on everyone to run, and rely on yourself to be the best. Including the closest person, you cannot advance and retreat with you.
Faced with the wind and snow of life, physical pain, the one who is by my side is always the amazing self.
If you say that when you were young, you rely on some luck and some speculation, and then face the changing world, the only thing that remains unchanged is a healthy body and stable ability.
You will slowly find that when you get better, you will encounter better.
When you get better, it is the most unrestrained moment for you to live. How can you pay attention to those people and things that consume you!
Written to the end, I think there is no if in life. I can't stand at the current level and ask for judgment in the past. But I still think that if I had known the above three points, I might have lived a better life!
What do you think?
