Even if you are in a low point, you must firmly believe that if you continue, you will definitely get better and better. Don’t be discouraged by the temporary difficulties in front of you.
A person can have a bad experience, but he must not live a bad life.
Not everyone is born strong. In the moment of difficulties, we will be in pain and depressed. This is human nature.
But remember not to linger in depression for too long. You can slow down and calm down to sort out and face problems.
Emotional hints are very important. The more you are, the weaker you will be.
Only by giving yourself more positive encouragement can you guide yourself to think in a positive direction, things will develop in a good direction, and life will be smoother and smoother.
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Even if you are discouraged on the surface, you must encourage yourself in your heart and work hard on your own.
The niece came to me to play on the weekend. When she saw her, she looked dejected and sighed from time to time.
I asked her, "Why do you always sigh? Is there anything unpleasant?"
She sighed again and said, "The internship will start next month, and the internship unit has not been found yet."
Due to the epidemic, many units have not recruited people, and few companies have studied recruitment in recent years. Her anxiety is understandable.
Then she said helplessly that her parents asked her to go around to ask her relatives' units to see if there were any recruitment.
Because I rarely contact each other, I feel embarrassed to ask. Last time I asked a relative, and the relative said there was no one for the time being, and I would tell her if I had one.
She sighed helplessly.
I can feel her anxiety and helplessness.
I had no resources to recommend to her, so I could only comfort me: "If it really doesn't work, just look for it slowly. You can always find something. Find an internship first and do it first, and then change it slowly."
Hearing her statement, I remembered that when I first graduated, the same was true. My parents asked me to ask my relatives around me if there were any recruits in their unit.
Although I don’t like to talk much, I also asked at that time. My relatives also said that they would tell me when they were recruiting people, but it was still left unresolved.
Finally, I found an internship unit myself. Although I experienced many twists and turns, I was lucky enough to pass the internship period successfully.
Many times we always like to pin our hopes on others, but in the end we have to rely on ourselves.
So even if you are very discouraged at the moment, you should encourage yourself. This state is temporary.
likes this sentence: "That is, has said a lot of depressed words, and you must keep working hard to live. Just be discouraged on the surface, and you must secretly encourage yourself in your heart ."
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Many things have to be experienced independently. Only after you come through that experience will you understand what is suitable for you and what you can do.
Internship means starting to enter society, starting to move out of school, starting to rent a house, and looking for a job.
At this time, there will be anxiety about the unknown future and uncertainty about your future, which is normal.
Many college students are unemployed as soon as they graduate, and the epidemic has become more serious in recent years.
It is also possible that we have found several jobs that are not suitable, and we may even start to doubt ourselves whether there is a problem with our abilities.
Maybe we will still be questioned by our parents: we can’t even find a job after studying, what’s the use of studying?
Even if you find an internship unit, you may encounter complex interpersonal relationships in the workplace.
We must be mentally prepared to deal with these doubtful voices and complex environments.
has just entered society, but it is better because it is young, full of energy, and has more time to try and make the trial and error cost low.
But no matter what you do, you must be down-to-earth, don’t be impetuous, and have a good attitude. If you choose an industry, you should deepen your efforts.
Adjust your mindset and take your time. You will definitely find a job that suits you. If you persist, you will definitely achieve something.
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Just entered society, you must first be clear about what you want to do, firm your goals, constantly learn, improve your abilities, and make yourself worthy of what you want.
niece said that her classmate’s family is from a good family and her internship salary is less than 3,000, and she refused to go directly.
Although the salary of 3,000 is not high, it is still not easy to find in fourth- and fifth-tier cities, let alone in internships. If the school has something to do, you need to take leave frequently.
Although we all want to have a high salary and live a good life, it is best to do it according to our actual situation.
Don’t rush to ask for a return first, think about what you can provide to the other party.
When you have no experience, accumulate experience first and then improve yourself step by step. If you improve your abilities, your salary will naturally gradually improve.
Charlie Munger said:
"If you want to get something, the best way is to make yourself worthy of it."
deeply agrees!
When our ability improves, even if the company does not raise our salary, we have the ability and will not worry about finding a job that suits us wherever we go.
internship is just a new beginning. Don’t be too anxious or feel fearful if the future is unknown.
Adhere to a positive attitude, your life will not be much worse!
One last thing to remember: the harder you work, the more progress you make, the happier you are, the more confident you are, the lazy you are, the more confused you are, the more anxious you are, and the more inferior you are.
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Author: Mu Muxue, a self-media writer who focuses on personal growth and writing self-media practical information and is working hard to go to freedom. I hope that we will become better selves through hard work and live the life we like! Picture: From the Internet, please delete if infringed.
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