I have seen a person who is very tall and disgusted, and the same is true in terms of feelings. The result of this is that the marriage is not going well and the face is sad every day. If a woman likes to be disgusted, her life is often bad.
Dislike means that a person looks down on things, does not know how to cherish, and always feels not satisfied. This is the mentality of poverty. How can a mentality like inspire wealth? Anyone with this mentality is often hungry, and his spirit is hungry. Why do you dislike
? It’s just that you think you are too excellent and too great, and you think others are not worthy of you. I often feel that the most amazing person has a deep sense of inferiority deep in my heart. People with strong inferiority complex often have strong self-esteem. If you often feel that your self-esteem is hurt, then it means that you are too inferior.
What should women do? A woman’s cultivation should be like the earth, and she should be virtuous and caring for things. The earth does not despise anything, but is called great. All things grow on the earth and finally return to the earth. Moreover, the earth is still tolerant, and it is necessary to have a spirit of tolerance.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang once said:
"The years are quiet and good, it is a moment; a mess is a daily life."
A mature woman will live a boring life into a poetic painting when facing the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life. Faced with the impermanence of life, do not ask questions or force it.
No matter how poor or rich or noble they are, they are not impatient or conceited.
A person is like a lotus, and the breeze comes naturally. A mature and gentle woman knows how to use her "fing around her fingers" to resolve the "heavy steel" of life. Let life be filled with plain and warm happiness.
In marriage and family, if you want to promote your husband, let me tell you, the first thing is that you must not dislike you, especially not dislike your husband.
Many people think about promoting their husband's life, but at the same time they want to dislike their husbands for being wrong and that is wrong. This is a manifestation of bad fate.
The two words "marriage" are all next to the girl. Women are the Feng Shui of the family.
Women are in trouble, men are silent; women are not gentle, and family wealth is not prosperous.
Wife is the husband's wealth star. If a woman can be respected by her husband and be happy and favored, her husband's wealth and career will be good. This is called "wife wealth".
In real life, women often encounter more difficulties than men, and need to take into account both family and career. The pressure and triviality of life may smooth out a woman's innocence, but after being polished by life, women gradually become strong and decisive.
Lin Qingxuan Once said in " Makeup of Life " that women's makeup has three levels:
"The first layer is the most basic makeup on the surface;
The second layer is to change the physique, make your skin more elastic, and make your spirit more sufficient;
The third layer is to read more, appreciate art more, think more about life, be optimistic, and be kind-hearted."
Even if the years have passed, the rich knowledge and soft heart will make women grow faster, and a kind and strong woman is respectable and admirable.
Moreover, in a family, the position of women is always more important than that of men. Women are a field. Whether a family can prosper depends on the virtues of women. All blessings must be rooted in the fields.
In a family, if a woman can work hard, she can cultivate a great child. But it is impossible to imagine what a family without women will look like when the child comes out.
, ancient and modern times, and at home and abroad, almost all great men have a good relationship with their mothers. Mao Zedong, Zhu De, Yue Fei , Mencius . They have a quality that is to work hard and complain. You will know when you read Zhu De's memory of my mother.
If a person is often disliked, it will also be a great loss of blessings.
Everything is given by God and is also inspired by one's own blessings. If you dislike it, it means you do not cherish your blessings. Then slowly, blessings are lost in disgust.
I used to have someone in my hometown, and I often say everything is good, whether it is this or that, or treat people equally, and treat clothes or food very much. Now that her children and grandchildren are well developed, this is the blessing of people in the old life, and it will bring blessings to the next generation!
