I once heard that those who achieve great things always have the qualities of "three self-healing": spontaneous combustion, self-healing, and self-discipline. I agree deeply. Although I do not pursue great things, I feel that in ordinary life, this small "Three Self-Sutra" is also very important, and it can be regarded as a great motto.
The so-called spontaneous combustion means that there is a surging passion on your body, like a ball of flame. Wherever you go, it can drive and infect people, showing vigorous vitality and extraordinary charm! Such people are born leaders, and many people will willingly follow you along the way.
The so-called self-healing means that when encountering setbacks, encountering hurts, or being wronged, you can heal yourself, recover and heal yourself, and take as short as possible to get out of haze, loss, discouragement, and depression, and appear calmly and gracefully in front of people even in full vitality.
The so-called self-discipline means being able to control one's will, have the perseverance to complete arduous tasks, have the perseverance to survive the boring process, have the regular adherence to necessary rituals, have the determination to pull out deep-sleeping feet, have the ability to break through the shackles of nightmare, do not give up halfway, and do not lose your ambition.
He who wins, and he who wins himself is strong. Spontaneous combustion, self-healing, and self-discipline are all issues of self-resistance.
一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个一个If you keep spontaneously igniting, you will be tired; if you are healing with heavy and difficult self-healing requires the tempering of your mind and the tempering of your will; the self-discipline of the ascetic monk will inevitably have the hardship of sighing to the sky. However, the strong will not express the fatigue in the public, will not write pain on their faces, and will not carve pain in their hearts.
Different age groups have different execution capabilities. Young people are easy to ignite, but difficult to heal themselves, and even more difficult to self-discipline; middle-aged people are gradually weaker, but weaker to heal themselves, and more powerful to self-discipline; elderly people are difficult to ignite, but easy to heal themselves, and more self-disciplined. Of course, this is roughly and cannot be generalized.
Now, I am between the transition from middle-aged and elderly people, under the pressure of life and work, and it is difficult to cheer up, and the thoughts of decadentness are born. But the more you are at this time, the more you can experience the great significance and profound connotation of spontaneous combustion, self-healing and self-discipline. Self-improvement, self-resistance, and strict self-restraint are not only to make this trip worthwhile, but also to make life more meaningful, live more confident, open and calm. From the brilliance of self-realization, from the establishment of self-image, from the great point of self-strong, we can obtain the pleasure of life and the sublimation of the realm! Getting the warmth of the inner sunshine from the positive energy you create is also to bring a kind of comfort to parents in the evening, bring a safe harbor for their wives, set a healthy and upward example for their children, and prevent the seeds of decadence and giving up in their children’s personality!
said so much in one go, and I always feel that there is still a need to supplement it. That is to say, I spontaneously ignite, heal myself, and discipline myself. I am sunny, strong, and persistent. I laugh with cheerful laughter, straighten my backbone, and travel through mountains and rivers. It is not only for the sake of achieving something, but also for the sake of making myself stand tall, so that the elderly feel like my son is like a mountain, so that my lover feels trustworthy, and that my children are guided healthily! Thus, make life more radiant!
Therefore, I live happily, work hard, insist on reading, run regularly, listen to music, watch movies, taste tea, drink coffee...
