Text/Xia Mo
01, Preface
Writer Li Ge said: "The front of life is endless aging. We fall straight into it and have no choice."
Everyone must experience such a growth process on the road of life: From From youth to old age. No one can escape the aging process.
On the way to getting older, correct your mentality and live a good life. Life is coming to an end, don't live too anxiously, throw away fame, fortune, some disputes, and live peacefully.
When people grow old, it is a blessing to learn to guard their own lives and live simply and calmly.
In your later years, you must learn to hold on to the capital you already own. Whether a person lives happily in his later years actually depends on his own plan for life.
When a person is old, if he loses three things, his life will be in vain.
02. If you lose your health, you will be plagued by diseases in your later years.
When people get old, if they lose their health, they lose everything.
Health is the capital to enjoy life.
Without health, no matter how much money she made in the first half of her life, no matter how easy her life is in her later years, it will have nothing to do with her.
Qiao Zuwang in " Children of the Qiao Family " is an extremely selfish and enjoyable man. He goes through many hardships, but in the end he still has to rely on his children to survive.
He wants to have a better life in his later years, and also wants to find a wife. He has unlimited expectations for life.
However, the illness came like a mountain, and when he fell, he found that all happiness had left him.
Although his children are willing to give money, their relationship with him is very cold. The nanny he found was about to become his wife, but in the end she stayed because of his house.
In his later years, he was ill and no one really cared about him. He could only sleep on the corridor with a desolate face. Eventually, he fell off the bed, ending the torture.
In life, if a person has no health, everything is meaningless.
When people get old, they must not be angry all the time and take good care of their bodies. Be calm every day, allow yourself to eat healthily, and keep exercising.
In your later years, only by maintaining a good physical condition can you have more opportunities to plan for the future.
The body is the capital of revolution, and the body is the foundation of everything. No matter what the reason is, you cannot over-expend your health.
03. Lose your life savings and live a miserable life.
In your later years, without money, life will be difficult.
When people are old and have no money, they have no confidence in life. In your later years, if you squander your savings, it will be tantamount to losing your dignity.
Throughout your life, in your later years, you will find that money will be the guarantee of your life and allow you to live a decent life.
The old Yan couple who sell buns in " An Jia ", when buying a house for their children, Xu Wenchang once reminded them that they can choose to pay in installments.
Xu Wenchang had seen too many ups and downs in the world when buying and selling a house. Xu Wenchang was thinking about the old couple.
When Lao Yan and his wife spent all their savings to buy a house for their son, they really had no way out. I bought a house for my son, but they can't live in it.
My son has nothing to rely on, and he has no savings. He really has no relatives to rely on, and he doesn't even have any friends. Later, I had no choice but to live in a bun shop. No matter how hard it is, how tiring it is, how difficult it is, we must continue to do business.
If people don’t have any savings in their later years, they will live very passively. If there is an illness or accident, we have no ability to deal with it.
When people get old and lose their savings, the road to their old age will become bumpy and difficult, and they will have to work hard.
04. Losing the sincerity of your lover, you will be lonely in your later years.
When you are old, the most reliable person is the lover beside your pillow.
Only when people grow old do they know what love is. It is not the flowers in front of and under the moon when we were young, but the gray hair is still dependent on life and death.
When people get old, don't not cherish your lover just because the relationship between husband and wife becomes indifferent after old age.No matter how many things you have experienced, you must pay more attention to your lover, understand her habits, and give her more care and warmth.
slowly warms up the lover's heart and establishes a warm relationship with each other. Only when they grow old can they keep each other company and become each other's spiritual support.
If you don’t want to be too lonely in your later years, you must protect your lover.
You can spend more time and energy, give your lover more warmth, and do what you can for your lover. If two hearts can get closer, they will have each other to accompany them in their later years.
When we come to this world, perhaps everyone can only accompany us for a certain distance.
Husband and wife should be the ones who accompany each other the longest and deserve each other’s trust the most. Managing the relationship between husband and wife well is saving happiness for your later years.
05. Summary
When people get old, it is a kind of happiness to keep what they already have.
wrote in " Live ": "As long as the family is together every day, it doesn't matter what blessings you have."
When people get old, health is the most important thing. You should keep everything in mind and take protecting your health as the ultimate goal. Don’t lose the foundation for your life, which is your life savings.
In your later years, only by cherishing the people around you can you preserve more happiness in the years.
Don't always think about the regrets left in your life, but you should open your hands and embrace those things you still have. Only by knowing how to cherish can your life go smoothly.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, cutting-edge emotional mentor, psychology scholar, over 1 billion popular emotional writer on the Internet, manager of happy women, focusing on emotions, gender, and answering questions for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
