Everyone hopes that their life will get better and better, but the road to the ideal life is bumpy and turbulent.
After the hard-working people have gone through many hardships, why do some people bathe in the warm sunshine in the spring of life, while others are beaten by regret and become "mentally insane"?
In fact, life is a journey from the mother's womb to the grave. It is an infinite cycle from nothing to something and from something to nothing. What remains unchanged is the ever-changing rules of life. What is known is that life has an end. What is interesting is that every life has its own sense of mission. This wonderful driving force will drive our direction and thinking habits when fighting for our dreams.
The essence of poverty is not entirely "lazy".
Poverty may stem from the limitation of resources. It is difficult for people without resources to change the status quo. They can only spend more time and energy than others, and exchange physical strength for more materials or resources.
Today, when technology is relatively advanced, "diligence" has evolved into a more abstract concept; we also need to spend time redefining what true "laziness" is.
Children from poor families are generally more willing to endure hardship than their peers when they grow up, but their way of thinking is relatively old-fashioned. They are usually unwilling to arrange time for themselves to rest, so "experience life" is just a concept to them.
Just imagine a person who only lives at work, how incomplete and regretful his life will be!
A life with ideals is passionate, and striving for ideals is also to obtain the so-called "experience". However, if we are paranoid about pursuing absolute efforts or perfect results, we will also have regrets in other aspects.
Getting rich through hard work is the basic concept of a nation’s prosperity, and it is also the source of relief for all people from suffering. However, we need to allocate time and energy reasonably during the struggle. After all, there are still many missions in life that need to be fulfilled one by one. We need to give our parents something to rely on when they grow old, give our loved ones something to look forward to in life, and give our children some skills and resources to stand on when they grow up...
Those so-called "lazy" people will obtain resources through social networking. In addition to relaxing, they recharge themselves and deal with difficult problems in a leisurely manner, so their energy will not be drained by anything and wait for opportunities. When they appear, they are like bamboo shoots in spring. They can emerge even if you don't let them emerge.
Life is like this, haste makes waste, the more you want to turn over quickly, the harder it will be to turn over, so we need to take into account our own situation and allow ourselves to slow down.
Being slow does not mean not being anxious about anything. "Slow" means learning to grasp the key points.
When we encounter a problem, we first calm down and think about the logic behind the problem. When we fully understand the laws of things, we can find the best way to solve the problem, improve production efficiency and prevent problems before they occur, because What might happen has already been stored in his head.
The reason why overly diligent people cannot stop is that they have suffered enough from poverty and lack a sense of security. On the other hand, they are relatively "lazy" in thinking and sacrifice space for thinking in order to maintain high productivity. There is nothing wrong with being willing to endure hardships for the sake of production, but things will not stop continuous development, and our physical strength and energy are limited. If we stop thinking and stop building production capacity, we will one day appear on the list of people eliminated by society. . What is the production capacity of
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For ordinary people, productivity means having a complete family, playing games with their children after work, and coaching them to grow; spending time with their lover in their spare time, making his or her life full of sweetness; spending time with them during the holidays. The reunion of parents fills their boring lives with fireworks. Friends need to be contacted occasionally, leaders need to feel confident, colleagues need some emotional lubricant, subordinates need some support and understanding, customers need to establish some appropriate relationships, we need to do too much.
Sometimes we inevitably lose sight of one thing and feel inadequate, so some autistic people try to make up for some vacancies they care about through hard work, but in the end it backfires.
So we must learn to slow ourselves down, take time to think, think about the problems at hand, think about future changes, think about the way we speak and behave, and constantly hone ourselves. When our thinking becomes clear and when we no longer devote all our efforts to something, we can always concentrate on doing the most important or urgent things at hand.
The reason why people are tired is that they have not solved the problem of sorting. When we develop the habit of solving everything by priority, our lives will be difficult to be troubled by the trivial matters of life. So no matter how busy we are and how cruel the reality is, we must give ourselves a space to think, and we should not let our excessive hard work drag our lives to a crawl, and finally fall into the vicious circle of blind work, making ourselves miss and regret at the same time.
