Someone said: "Living in the world, you should have three points of warmth, two points of coolness, four points of indifference, and the last point, do whatever you want." People follow their hearts, their intentions come from their hearts, they are emotional and idealistic, and

Someone said: "To live in the world, you should have three points of warmth, two points of coolness, four points of indifference, and the last point, do whatever you want."

People follow their hearts, their intentions come from their hearts, their sensibility their ideals, everything follows their heart! If you set out with sunshine, you will encounter warmth; if you move forward with a smile, you will encounter happiness.

In the days after retirement, with a calm mood, I walked carelessly in the wind and rain, picking up the broken memories, burning them silently, with the graceful and misty green smoke dancing in the wind, the rest of my life too Gradually farther away.

At this moment, the wind outside the window is blowing slightly, with a slight smile on the corner of the mouth, quietly listening to the words of the heart, and feeling the comfortable life after retirement, which is the beautiful rest of life for many of us.

Some people say that the days after retirement are not as beautiful as those written in books. There is neither the poetic distance nor the sense of ritual in front of you, but only trivial and complicated daily life.

In the first half of our lives, we ran and worked hard for survival and life. Now that we have retired and are at home, we need to learn to enjoy a comfortable retirement life quietly: Mind your own business, find your inner hobbies, stop thinking randomly, and enjoy the quiet beauty of alone time, live In the present moment, be kind to yourself and the people around you, run your own big family well, be a good old man who lives to be kind and learns from old age, feel the beauty of the rest of your life, appreciate the beauty of life, and feel the meaning of life.

Mind your own business and focus on your own interests and hobbies

Some people say that the reason why people are troubled is because they have too many chores on their minds. In the days after retirement, we are free and indifferent. When faced with the trivial matters in life, we try our best to ignore them, because not all good intentions in will be accepted by others.

In life, some people like to use "I speak frankly, don't mind." In fact, speaking frankly is a kind of "kind word". You feel that you have spoken happily, but you ignore the feelings of others, those glass-hearted people. People will be sad and resentful of you.

After we retire, and learn to enjoy our own comfortable life, we need to "keep our mouths shut" and say "well-intentioned" good words that others like , otherwise it is better not to say them. In ordinary years, only by finding your inner hobbies and learning to stick to focusing on your favorite hobbies can you truly feel the comfortable life after retirement.

Some people say , the best health care is not to care for the body, but to care for the mind. After retirement, we can calm down our hearts, do what we like, chat with the people and lovers we are destined to spend the rest of our lives with, drink tea and meditate on rainy days, and set out with a smile on sunny days. Then, the rest of our lives after retirement must be It is plump and plump, happy and indifferent.

Don’t think too much, enjoy alone time, stay away from unfamiliar people, and live well now

After retirement, life is rich and colorful, with various sports groups and various WeChat group chats, which not only dazzles us, but also confuses us. People's hearts.

After retiring, some people have active thoughts and try things that they did not dare to do before. In the end, "the scandal is exposed", the ending is dismal, and the future is miserable. It is difficult to deal with interpersonal relationships after retirement. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices, which will be difficult for you. It is better not to join the group and live freely. You can stay in it if you want, and you can come and go freely. It is a life of its own control. Happier.

After retirement, you should stay away from unfamiliar people. There is no love without reason, and there will be no good without reason. Learn to identify, learn to be alone, live in the present, and don't let your mind have no harbor with random thoughts.

Each of us has human weaknesses. Do not challenge human nature and people's hearts easily, otherwise you will be the one who gets hurt. In life, those who are deceived usually leave with hope in the beginning and return disappointed after being deceived. Believe in human nature and never believe that you are a special case. It is enough to take control of your own life and live the present life well.

After we retire, accept all the life we ​​have now. Don't think and worry too much and have some fun for yourself, otherwise it will be boring. If you still want to go out and continue working, it is also a good choice if your body and energy allow it.

No matter who you get along with, grasp the sense of propriety and boundaries, and be a good old man who is kind.

Life is like a ruler, you must have limits. Emotions are like faces, don’t cross the line. When you get along with others, you must be careful. No matter how good the relationship is, don't get too close, otherwise you will only drift apart in the end.

Being too close to an old friend can sometimes be annoying. Sometimes the boundaries of words and actions are not properly controlled, which will lead to gaps and grudges in the friendship for many years. There is no sense of money and lack of understanding in actions. Respect, as time goes by, everyone will stay away.

Relatives should also maintain a proper sense of propriety and boundaries between themselves. Do not inquire into other people's private affairs with good intentions, and do not kidnap relatives with affection. Your blunt words are the most hurtful.

Keep a certain amount of space between husband and wife, and control what you say. Don't think that an old couple just keeps their mouth shut. They say everything and do everything. This will affect the life of the elderly and make them more and more chilling.

You should keep a bowl of soup distance between you and your adult children, especially those who are married. Don't interfere in the affairs of your children's small family. When facing your children in disciplining their grandchildren, don't overdo it. Be a considerate old man and take care of others. Just be good to yourself.

Live and learn, take the initiative to exercise, control your own financial situation, and run your big family well.

Good health is the source of all happiness. You must proactively go out to exercise and spend a certain amount of time participating in sports. Just like boxing, dancing, singing, writing, practicing calligraphy, running, it's all fine.

Have good interpersonal relationships and be happy and satisfied easily. If you talk less, you can maintain good popularity; if you talk more about others, you can maintain good popularity. A happy and comfortable life after retirement depends on us learning to say more kind words and words that others are willing to listen to.

In the face of the ever-changing Internet era, we must have a mentality of living and learning. When you encounter something you don’t understand or understand, you should sit down quietly and learn slowly. This not only allows us to keep up with the times, but also allows our children to live their lives with peace of mind.

In the face of the management of a large family, we retired people must be "family treasures" and not cause trouble to our children or burden society. In the face of our children, we should keep a bowl of water as level as possible. It is best not to The water is sprinkled, this is conducive to the harmonious coexistence of the big family, and is also conducive to our life in our later years.

The last thing is that when it comes to the finances in our hands, we must control it well, support our children appropriately, support family members within our capabilities, learn to be selfish occasionally, and leave some money for ourselves in the future. You don't have to look at your children's faces, and you don't have to live without dignity and confidence.

Conclusion:

Life is inherently a long and exciting journey. We always think that success is achieved only when we have more and reach our goals, but we forget that only by clearing our bags in time can we travel lightly and go further.

After retirement, we must learn to clean up the rest of our lives, what to give up, and what to stick to, so that we can truly think about the comfortable life for the rest of our lives. There is no fixed pattern for life after retirement, the best lifestyle is the one that suits you! Don’t force yourself to be fashionable and follow trends! Don't look at the dogmatism on the Internet, because everyone's situation is different, just feel free and relaxed!

Finally, I wish all the elderly to be able to follow their inner wishes and live the rest of their comfortable lives!

Author: Huagui Zenxin

Pay attention to my words and enter your soul. You have stories, I have tea, and we can chat for the rest of our lives together.

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