Many times, you can find that most people have a kind of inferiority; you can't see others as better than yourself.
So, most single people mind their current love couples;
When they are unhappy, they will find it particularly dazzling to see the happy smiles of people around them;
The work that you have worked so hard to get is very easy for others, you Complaining about naivety is unfair;
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Actually, when we judge ourselves, we will judge others;
When we are not free, we want to limit The freedom of others.
Therefore, when you do not allow yourself to live out your true self, it is difficult to allow others to become their true self.
For example, there is a saying "a daughter-in-law for many years becomes a mother-in-law." Some people are wondering that when I was a daughter-in-law, I suffered so much and it was my turn to be a mother-in-law.
is instead picking up the nitpicking, scrutinizing, blaming, and reprimanding that I have experienced to treat the person called your mother-in-law.
Because most people are used to treating others the way they are treated.
In fact, such unconscious behavior is terrible:
Because he failed to be himself, he projected his constraints and restrictions on other people or things, and then judged him.
And when you fully allow yourself and realize the inner freedom and happiness, you can really allow others to realize their own freedom and happiness.
Because at this time, you look at yourself very beautifully, and you are also allowed to accept all the suffering or luck you have experienced, knowing that it belongs to yourself, not to others.
When a person allows one to choose everything they experience, naturally they also allow others to choose what they want to experience.
and this time,There is no more grasping and control in the relationship, because all you have to do is to settle yourself down and allow everything to happen freely around you.
So, stop saying that some people make you unhappy, go back to the root, you just don't allow yourself enough.
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