With the improvement of living standards, the economic pressure of young people has gradually increased. Obviously, this is also an era of material desire, and almost everyone is thinking about how to make money.
In particular, many of the poor at the bottom want to become a powerful person, rich, but how can we accomplish our goals? Not everyone has the ability to cross classes.
I have heard a saying that the class leap is not achieved by ourselves, but by people who are higher than our class, leading us to leapfrog.
To put it bluntly, a person’s success includes crossing classes and sometimes cannot do without the help of the nobles. It requires luck and is beyond our control. If we become rich and powerful on our own, we need to start by quitting "low taste".
01. Quit useless social interaction
When I first came out to work, an older brother told me that he wanted me to socialize as much as possible. At that time, I was too young to recognize what is the best advice for our growth, so I didn't think there was a problem with his views at first.
But the experience of the past few years has made me gradually understand that, in fact, the most important thing in this society is not your connections, but your own strength. You have no abilities yourself, and neither the poor nor the rich will put you in the eyes. It is useless to know more people.
Many people feel that they are not good at mixing, that is, it is okay to have no background at home, these are of course very important, but the most important thing is your own strength.
Imagine if someone is willing to give you 1 million unconditionally, but you have no talent or ideas, you can't use this 1 million to produce more wealth.
In fact, as long as you are really capable of a certain level, you can let people around you help you collect hundreds of thousands of dollars together, help you start a business, and make money.
So most people are unable to start a business, not because of lack of money, but because of their lack of ability.Therefore, when you want to become stronger and richer, the most important thing is not to go out to socialize, but to quit useless social interactions and concentrate on improving your abilities.
After all, your ability is not strong, and the people you know are also poor, including poor relatives and poor friends. The content and topics they chat with you are not beneficial to your growth, and they even come to consume you and prevent you from becoming Stronger people.
They are migrant workers. If you have been with them for a long time, you will be influenced by them yourself, and you will be affected by their failed life philosophy, and they will also become a very low-level poor person, even more unable to cross classes and achieve success.
02. Get rid of trash entertainment
There used to be a popular saying on the Internet before: The gap between people depends on what they do after get off work.
This is true. If you observe carefully, you can also see the difference between the poor and the rich in reality. Often the richer people are, the more they can afford to suffer, and even work harder.
because they always devote all their time to things that can make money, or appreciate in value, or work and improve their skills. In fact, they have also worked part-time before, but they insist on studying or working after work.
What does the poor look like after get off work? Either Ge You directly lie up, or stay up late to use Douyin until we go to bed in the early morning, or go out to play with my friends after get off work.
Powerful people have long realized the corrosive and destructive nature of these garbage entertainments to their growth, so they have quit or automatically blocked these garbage entertainments a long time ago.
03. Leaving low-quality relationships
If you desire to be strong, or you are a strong, then it is best to be with the strong,If you don't meet it, you should find a weak person who is obedient. If this person is not strong and disobedient, it is best to separate.
Take some girls as an example. She is self-motivated, but the boys she meets are lazy, and the other party always thinks she is too powerful, not only does not approve it, but also blindly criticizes her.
This is a low-quality relationship, because even if you are in a relationship, you are always growing by yourself. The other half not only fails to keep up with you, but also tries to destroy your self-confidence through other means and let you and He became just as bad.
This kind of person is here to consume you, he is very weak, he does not listen to you, does not recognize you, and hopes to be above you, if you want to grow and become stronger, you must separate from him , Leave this low-quality relationship.
No one can be successful casually. One wants to be powerful or rich, which means that one has to work harder than ordinary people. The low-level taste is precisely what the vulgar public is very addictive and inseparable. thing.
So if you can quit, it can be said that you have surpassed most ordinary people, at least you will be far better than most of your peers around you.
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