生命的常态 The normality of life

人生天地间，忽如远行客。

在广袤的天地间，无涯的荒野里，

我们每个人都是时间的匆匆过客，

如一阵风，一场雨，一个梦，

短暂的路过这个世界，然后孤独而终。

孤独，本就是人生常态，

如月的阴晴圆缺，人的悲欢离合，

只有孤独，才是生命永恒的主题。

孤独是身在繁华处，内心深处空旷，安静，

不是没有人倾诉，只是不想说，

因为没有真正的感同身受，只有冷暖自知。

Life is like a traveler in the world.

In the vast world and boundless wilderness,

Each of us is a passer-by of time,

Like a gust of wind, a rain, a dream,

Passing through the world for a short time, and then dying alone.

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Loneliness is the normal state of life,

As the moon waxes and wanes, people's joys and sorrows,

Only loneliness is the eternal theme of life.

Loneliness means being in a prosperous place, being empty and quiet in the heart,

It's not that no one confides, just that they don't want to say,

Because there is no real empathy, only cold and warm.

曾以为朋友会一路相伴，亲友会永远在侧，

但生命的列车上，没有永远的相知相伴，

走到最后，才明白有些路只能一个人走，

那些心事，交给宁静的夜，

那些话语，只能沉默成海。

经历过人情冷暖，品尝过酸甜苦辣，

结识过虚伪的人事，看清了假意的寒暄，

才变得越来越沉默，越来越不想说。

小时候的友情是哭着和好，

而成年人的友谊是笑着疏远。

有些事，不再逢人就说；

有些路，也不再期待有谁能同行。

I used to think that friends would accompany me all the way, and relatives and friends would always be there,

But on the train of life, there is no eternal acquaintance,

At the end, I realized that some roads can only be taken alone,

Those worries are left to the quiet night,

Those words can only become a sea of silence.

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Having experienced the cold and warm of human feelings, and tasted the sweet and bitter,

I have met hypocritical personnel and seen the fake greetings clearly,

Only then became more and more silent, more and more did not want to say.

When I was young, friendship was made up in tears,

And adult friendship is laughing and alienating.

Some things, no longer meet people to say;

Some roads do not expect anyone to travel with them.

每个人都是独立的个体，

没有人是你的救赎，我们必须成为自己的光，

遇到事学会了自己扛，流的泪学会自己擦，

不再费心讨好别人，而是慢慢学会取悦自己，

学会聆听内心的声音，学会享受人生的孤独。

因为孤独是生命的常态，

所以陪伴才显得格外珍贵。

珍惜那个陪你走过风雨的人，

是他花费了时间，

陪你一起颠沛流离，栏杆拍遍，

即使陪伴一程，也应该心存感激。

Everyone is an independent individual,

No one is your salvation, we must become our own light,

Learn to carry things on your own, and wipe your tears on your own,

No longer bother to please others, but gradually learn to please yourself,

Learn to listen to your inner voice and enjoy the loneliness of life.

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Because loneliness is the normal state of life,

So companionship is especially precious.

Cherish the person who accompany you through the storm,

He spent his time,

Accompany you to wander around, and take photos of the railings,

Even if I accompany you for a while, I should be grateful.

孤独是一个人的清欢，

是在繁华的世间，独自跋涉，

去闲看一片叶落，一帘风寒，一场初雪，

去赏马蹄声里的残阳，小桥流水中的飞鸟，

去捡澹澹春山上的花瓣，

去遇盈盈秋水里的月色，

去写袅袅青烟里的黄昏，

在灵魂深处，

将薄的日子活成深情，将浅的清欢落笔深爱。

世界很忙，孤独是生命的常态，

每个人都自顾不暇，你得靠自己，

寻一个梦，攀一座山，不要总是借助外力，

别人的屋檐再大，都不如自己有把伞。

Loneliness is a person's happiness,

It is to travel alone in the prosperous world,

Go to watch a leaf fall, a cold curtain, and the first snow,

To enjoy the setting sun in the sound of horses' hoofs and the flying birds in the flowing water of small bridges,

Go to pick up the petals on Dandan Spring Mountain,

To meet the moonlight in the bright autumn water,

To write about the dusk in the curl of smoke,

In the depths of the soul,

Live the thin days into deep love, and write the shallow Qinghuan into deep love.

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The world is busy. Loneliness is the normal state of life,

Everyone has too much time for himself. You have to rely on yourself,

Find a dream and climb a mountain. Don't always rely on external forces,

No matter how big the eaves of others are, it's better to have an umbrella.

每个人，都有一个世界，安静而孤独，

愿你在沉默的时光里，活成自己的星光，

把岁月熬成清酒，把孤独熬成温柔！

Everyone has a world, quiet and lonely,

May you be your own star in the silent time,

Boil years into sake and loneliness into tenderness!