所谓的成长，不是学会，就是懂得

许多年过去了，人们说昔日的梦想可以被遗忘，然而我终于明白这是错的，梦想依然偶尔露头，只是被妥协了。

Many years have passed, and people say that old dreams can be forgotten. However, I finally understand that this is wrong. Dreams still occasionally appear, but they are compromised.

成长的本质就是一场自我接受，我们明白自己的无能为力，也释怀所有的阴差阳错，当我们接纳了不完美的自己，也就遇见了另一个完整的自己。

The essence of growth is self acceptance. We understand our powerlessness and let go of all our mistakes. When we accept our imperfect self, we meet another complete self.

我们总是喜欢付出到无能为力，操心到事无巨细，真心到毫无保留，总觉得自己做到极致，就会得到肯定，换来回报，会被疼爱珍惜。

We always like to pay until we can do nothing, worry until we can do nothing, and be sincere until we have no reservations. We always feel that if we do our best, we will be affirmed, rewarded and cherished.

可是我们将就了这个，忍让了那个，唯独忘了爱自己。

But we made do with this, tolerated that, and only forgot to love ourselves.