风风雨雨的人生，要拿得起放得下

风风雨雨的人生中，能够放下，是一种看开，更是一种修行。

In the stormy life, being able to let go is not only an open mind, but also a kind of practice.

越是放不下，越会在一定的程度上失去，因为过去，耽搁了现在，因为小事，影响了心情，最后买椟还珠，舍本逐末。

The more you can't put it down, the more you will lose it to a certain extent. Because of the past, the present is delayed, and because of small things, your mood is affected. Finally, you will buy the Pearl and return it, and abandon the basics.

所以说，人这辈子，怎么过都是一天，与其愁眉不展，不如心态放平，尽量乐观。

Therefore, people in this life, how to live is a day, rather than frown, it is better to calm down and try to be optimistic.

记住，这个世界，心宽的人才算赢家。

Remember, in this world, people with a wide heart are the winners.