有教养的人，仿佛春雨，在每一个角落温暖世人，总在不经意间让你舒畅无比。
例如下雨天，你在路上走着，一位司机开车从你身旁经过，踩刹车减速，没有溅起一滴脏水。你会不会心里一暖，对这个司机好感倍增呢？
其实，教养的本质，可以从两方面来说，一是分寸，二是克制。
很多人办事往往不懂得分寸，怀着一颗善良的心，却好心办坏事。
邻居夫妻吵架，你本想去劝一下，让两个人都消消气，和好如初。结果你掌握不好分寸，过多参与到人家家务事中，被人家反过来责怪你。
所以，懂得分寸很重要，什么时候出手，以什么方式出手，都会让人有不同的感受，也是考验你的智慧。
克制，是指懂得适可而止，及时收手。
不要拿自己的教养当成卖弄的资本，满世界去夸耀自己，每个人都有很强的表现欲，而人最难做到的即是克制自己的表现欲。
Educated people, like spring rain, warm the world in every corner, and always make you feel comfortable inadvertently.
For example, on a rainy day, when you are walking on the road, a driver drives past you and slows down by stepping on the brake without splashing a drop of dirty water. Will you feel a warm heart and feel more favorable to the driver?
In fact, the essence of education can be seen from two aspects: moderation and restraint.
Many people do not know how to handle affairs properly. They have a kind heart, but they are good at doing bad things.
The neighbor and his wife quarreled. You wanted to persuade them to calm down and make peace. As a result, you don't have a good sense of propriety. You take too much part in others' housework and are blamed by others.
Therefore, it is important to know how to handle the situation. When and how to handle the situation will make people feel different and also test your wisdom.
Restraint means knowing enough to stop and stopping in time.
Don't take your education as the capital to show off, and go all over the world to brag about yourself. Everyone has a strong desire for performance, and the most difficult thing for people to do is to curb their desire for performance.
真正有教养的人，懂得分寸和克制。他们会在出去时悄悄地把门关上，不会吵醒你；他们会在接到电话时跑到图书馆外面，不会打扰你看书。
他们仿佛春雨，总在不经意间让你舒畅无比。
懂得分寸和克制的教养，是一种不用说出来的美好。
A truly cultured person knows discretion and restraint. They will quietly close the door when they go out without waking you; They will run outside the library when they receive a call, and will not disturb your reading.
They are like spring rains, which always make you feel comfortable inadvertently.
The cultivation of moderation and restraint is a kind of beauty that needs no words.
