After dinner in the morning, my daughter and I started studying together. She learned her little love English, I listened to my psychology class, and my husband started preparing lunch. Because it was during the epidemic lockdown period, he pressed some more noodles and delivered them to his buddy upstairs.
It was nearly ten fifty, and my daughter suddenly said, Mom, what should I do? The writing plan I made yesterday has not been completed yet, but I made an appointment to have a video call with Sister Yueyue at eleven o'clock, because Yueyue was about to start school in the afternoon.
made a promise not to break his promise and started chatting with Yueyue at eleven o'clock. After about forty minutes, the two finally finished chatting. However, what to do with the plan made by the child? The plan is an agreement with yourself, and you cannot break your promise to yourself! How to lead her? My mind was spinning rapidly.
Suddenly, I heard my husband shouting in the kitchen, xxx, come here. I hurried over, and my husband started to arrange for me to wash the pots and boil water. When everything was ready, I looked in front of my husband's eyes and said flatteringly, "My dear, you still need me. Did you do it?" Because I was still thinking about the child not finishing writing, I felt a little guilty when I said this. I didn't mean it sincerely. I actually wanted him to express that he didn't need me in the kitchen. However, it is difficult to explain clearly to children.
My husband didn’t say a word, with a little displeasure on his face, “Humph, you’re just being hypocritical.” Okay! I had no choice but to look at the pot of boiling water while thinking about my child, who was still there waiting for me. How should I help her recognize the problem and solve it.
"Girl, you've always written very well. Mom likes your handwriting the best. It's square and square, with even stroke structure. It looks very powerful." After saying that, he looked at his daughter from a distance, but it didn't seem to have any effect. .
"Girl, as your best friend, I want to talk to you?" I simply turned down the heat, left the kitchen, and went to the bedroom with her, "Can't we break the promise we made?"
"Yes. , Mom? "
" The plan we made yesterday is also a promise. It is a promise to ourselves. Shouldn't we break our promise? "
" Um..."
"Originally, you could have left it until the afternoon. Not only would you be more stressed in the afternoon, but most importantly, you would have broken your promise to yourself in the morning. Since we are best friends, I have the obligation to remind you. Oh."
"Uh..., okay, mom, let me write."
When the child sat at the desk, I hurried to the kitchen and continued cooking noodles. In a panic, I kicked away the trash can.
was cooking noodles and saw that the child was impatient and a little irritable. Over there, write for a while and play for a while. thought. If this doesn't work, I have to stay with her for a while to help her calm down. Therefore, as soon as the noodles are out of the pot, sit down in front of the child.
After a while, I saw my husband in the kitchen slamming the egg skins one by one on the ground. They fell far and rolled all over the floor. Amazing, someone got angry and it must have been because I kicked down the trash can.
I coaxed and coaxed to finally help the child calm down and start writing with peace of mind. Over in the kitchen, my husband was throwing and beating her again. Just ignore him, it's more important for your children to develop good habits.
My husband finished cooking. When he saw that the child hadn't finished writing, he started to mutter, "Why don't we eat before we finish writing?"
"Husband, you and your son eat first. We still have about ten words left. I'll accompany you." My daughter will eat after she finishes writing. "Hmph, what did you do earlier?" She picked up the bowl and put it aside. The son saw that the atmosphere was not right, so he also put some rice in it and went to eat it.
Around 12:40, my daughter finally finished writing. We both finished cleaning up and started eating together.
When I returned to the house, my husband was happily watching videos. When he saw me coming in, he simply turned his face, and the sky suddenly turned cloudy.
sat down and I started to explain to him the reason for what happened. Although he was still a little angry, he calmed down a lot and said, "I don't know what you are doing. I only saw the trash can fell over, and you couldn't even help it." No. I only see the trash can and nothing else, so I am very angry with you. "Husband, now you know, in my heart, the growth of the child is more important. Can take second place."
" cut! mock up! I just think the trash can is important, I just think the trash can is important! "While my husband was being naughty, he put on his clothes and went downstairs to volunteer.
The trash can is still the same trash can. The difference is that people's hearts have changed. The heart is the most important, and learning to manage emotions is the most important!
——To all those who are destined to be together
